Single woman after married man?

Question

Ok, here is the senario: We have a single woman (sw) who's daughter is dating the son of a married couple (mm & mw). We just met this woman several months ago and were trying to help her get reestablished (she had been involved with drugs and the law) we were trying to give her the benefit of the doubt. Now after we had known her for a few weeks, she began being hateful towards our son and she always appeared to be trying to break the kids up. We didn't say much because if we did, she would take it out on them. They are very close to each other. Well we had also put her to work for us some to help make some extra money that they needed. Ok, all was fine at first, but then things started to change. She became more controlling over the kids and started avoiding the mw. However, she was always asking the mm for favors such as rides to the store etc. The more time went on, the more she was trying to work my husband against me and our son. Ok, move up in time. I will add to this

A few weeks ago, my son had given her a ride in my car. We discovered that while he was away from the car, she went through the console. This made me and my husband mad. We decided to confront her about it. Of course she got defensive. But here is the good part... The next day, I called her and tried to discuss in an adult and nice manner the kids. I did not want to be the one causing trouble with them. She was just real hateful. Said that I hated her daughter (I DON'T) she is a sweet girl. She is a very controlling person. But while she was on the phone, at first she was in my husbands defense about small things. Then it turned. She began calling him an a@#$%ole along with numerous names. She said he has been making sexual advances towards her. Now this woman has changed her story when telling others and she gets mad when I ask her questions. She is trying to convince the kids of this also. Since then my husb. has had 6 flats in a week, (will continue)

and she is telling this about him to others. I am now finding out that she was always making little remarks about me to him that we now think were trying to turn him away from me. Of course I confronted him and I truly believe he did not do this. For several reasons, one she is DOG ugly, two he has shown no signs of lying (I've known him for 28 yrs), three is a sincere family man with a huge heart, and a main reason, it was his sons girlfriends mother! I guess I am just looking for some input here. The 2 kids are still together but our son is not allowed around the mother. She continues to be hateful and tries to start trouble with him. But I truly think she had a thing for my husband and discovered it wasn't going to happen and when she got pissed, it was if I can't have him neither can you or she is just a royal B! We have also discovered she has had 3 past incidents of harassment in the past (online checks). Any ideas on how to get my peaceful life back to normal???

That is exactly what I have been trying to do. It is tough because we are a little worried about her stability. Our son is not allowed anywhere that she is. I don't trust her.

To clarify, she does not live with us. I don't allow anyone to live with us except my kids. that is how problems begin. No, she lives a few blocks away. Her daughter and my son are dating.

Answer 1

WOW! This is just nuts. If you continue like this you will be too. Leave it alone/ Don't try and do God's work/ Stay out of the kids relationship completely/ Only do what you are asked/Nothing else. Then only when you want to.

Answer 2

why is this lady still in your house? get her away from your kids, get her away from your hubby and yourself.she is ruining your family and for what, she seems like she doesnt appreciate it. she needs to go before she ruins anythng else. yes she has a daughter but your kids come first and if she is disrupting the house, you hae opened your house to her and now she is making up lies about you and your hubby. she needs to go.or your life andmarriage with be gone.good luck.

Answer 3

1. Throw the ***** out!
2. Get a life.

TX Guy