OK SO THERES THIS GIRL I LIKE AND SHE LIKES ME AND SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND AND SHE DOSENT WANT TO DUMP HIM AND HER BOYFRIEND IS MY BEST FRIEND AND I WANT TO ASK HER OUT AND SHE LIKES ME AND SO SHE DOSENT WANT TO DUMP HIM THOUGH TO HURT HIS FEELINGS AND I STILL WANT TO BE HIS FRIEND WHAT THE HEL DO I DO!?
2006-06-15 06:13:08 · 15 answers · asked by FRee2RHYme7 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Find another girl. Not good to poach on someone else's preserve.
2006-06-15 06:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by parsonsel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make a move. You are going to hurt all involved. If she really wanted to be with you she would leave him and unfortunately thats the bottom line. Asking her out will make it hard for her and it will hurt you even if she gives you the go ahead. I think she should never have told you she liked you if she's not willing to make a move. It's hard to deny feelings but it would have been less complicated that way. If she does break it off with your friend, give him time to get her out of his system to make a move, or keep it on the d. l. I would wait to see how their relationship plays out.
2006-06-15 06:21:04 · answer #2 · answered by leahs713 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your friend first and ask him if he really likes the girl. Then express that you are having feelings for her but you don't want to step on your friends toes. If the girl likes you as much as you like her then it shouldn't be a big deal for her to dump him, so what about his feelings. I think she is playing with both of your alls heads.
2006-06-15 06:17:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the girl truly likes you then she would dump her boyfriend but since that is not happening move on.. And what are you doing with your best friends girl?!.. Find your own.
2006-06-15 06:28:00 · answer #4 · answered by Courtney-Claire C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K sounds like your in a heck of a situation ask your self these quitions.
1.which person do you value more
2.how long do you think the relationship with the girl would last if you went out with her
3.does your friend know you like her
4.does he know she likes you
5.how long do you think the relationship with the friend would last if you didn't
6.would your friend still be your friend if you went out with her
or 8.Should you wait for the relationship between them to be over before you made a move
If you have any quistions Mail me at ender_mandalore@yahoo.com
2006-06-15 06:22:41 · answer #5 · answered by Mandalore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're good friends with the guy, stay away from the girl. She's not worth the friendship--which will be damaged.
There's plenty of girls out there. Just move on.
2006-06-15 06:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by theswitch3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude you are SCREWED. first of all if she does leave him for you, it will ruin your friendship, probably forever. Even if you do work it out he'll still kick your *** (deservingly). Plus if she leaves him for you, she'll probably do the same thing TO you eventually. She'll flirt with someone while you two are still together and wind up leaving you for him.Probably one of YOUR friends at that. Move on for now. If you still want to date her later on down the road, I'm sure your buddy won't have as much of a problem with you dating his ex as he would if you stole his girl.
2006-06-15 06:30:49 · answer #7 · answered by Wench 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't like him, then she needs to break up with him...but you need to be loyal to your best friend. In all honesty, the chances that a dating relationship will last are much less than the chances of a friendship....friendships last forever if you're careful. Stick with your best friend, man!
2006-06-15 06:21:50 · answer #8 · answered by celticivory 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the girl likes you enough which you say, she would explain to your other friend that she just has more feelings toward you and if he doesnt understand and gets mad and if you guys really want to be together then he will get over it.
2006-06-15 06:17:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from her. This is a no win situation specially if you value your friendship with you so called Best Friend. Find someone else!
2006-06-15 06:17:16 · answer #10 · answered by Elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋