My sister is eleven, she's already started her menstruation, she has boobs already too , however she still sleeps in our father's bed and they cuddle a little too comfortably...I mean when she's laying next to him...it would be in a position where he is laying on his side and she's directly infront of him with her back to his chest and her butt touching his privates and his arms would be cradling her across her stomach as if he was squeezing her closer to him..and she seems to like it very much and sometimes he would be laying on his back on the couch and she would go and sit directly on his lower mid-section and he would not tell her anything...it is sickening to watch..what do you think is happening?...Am I thinking too far off?
2006-06-15 06:12:02 · 16 answers · asked by hungry4freedom&happiness 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I had mentioned to him that what he is doing is not right, he said that he never felt "that" way about her and he will never feel "that" way about her..but still...it seems fishy...and he is not the one who starts it up my sister approaches him and rubs herself against him...sometimes I think she knows exactly whats she's doing and as for him...I don't know if he thinks that's pure innocence or if he also knows what she's trying to do and if he's encouraging it.
2006-06-15 06:21:31 · update #1
Girl's should stop sleeping with they're dad's at about age 6. In my opinion. You can call the cops on them, in the US dunno about anywhere else, & they may not have had sex...yet. But it won't be long!
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2006-06-15 06:22:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-22 22:36:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well of course is wrong to sleep in daddys bed... a girl or boy should be having his or her own bed sense birth... but i think something else is bothering you here..... tell your dad look this is not normal behavior a daughter should not be laying all over her dad or any man the way your sister does. maybe is that your dad stills sees her as a small child that happends sometimes and you should know if your dad have others hidden problems..if you dont think that is what happening then you should confront your dad and tell him my sister is a young lady now this behavior is unacceptable and i dont feel comfortable with this... ring the bell maybe he just need someone to bring it to his attention..and definatly talk to your sister tell her she is almost a teenager she doesnt need to be on daddy that way....this is something that should be tought sense the child is younger like three of four.... im asumming there is no mom around and if it is a mom around you should tell her this is bothering you and to ask your dad to stop his daughter from laying on him like that because if she do it with him,most likely she will do it to other men. you are the one noticing this strange behavior is on you,bring it to their attention.good luck.
2006-06-15 06:28:01 · answer #3 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
This isn't right at all. No offense, but your sister has a complex and your father is doing nothing but encouraging this behavior. You should tell someone about this. It could turn into something far more serious. They both need to see a counselor for this.
2006-06-15 06:17:30 · answer #4 · answered by Brandi 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'm thinking that your sister is being molested by your father. That's improper the way the two of them are acting. Since your sister is young, talk to her. As her in a sutle way if your father is touching her or doing anything inappropriate.
2006-06-15 07:34:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No you are not too far off. It sounds like DAD is too far off.
To cuddle our children is a loving normal thing. But to continue sleeping together all these years send up a red flag
2006-06-15 06:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by LORI W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm...well I would say that she is too old to still be sleeping with dad. I am not sure what to think of him? He could still just think of her as his little girl...but on the other hand something else may be happening. Talk to her. See if she says anything that would give you reason to believe that something wrong is happening between her and your dad. If not, just tell her and your dad that she is too old to sleep with him and it makes you uncomfortable.
2006-06-15 06:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you live anywhere but West Virginia you must tell some one about this situation. If you're from West Virginia, just accept the fact that you've been cock blocked by your old man.
2006-06-15 06:19:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not thinking far off enough! Get that girl away from him right now. All the signs are there.
2006-06-15 06:15:36 · answer #9 · answered by John 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2017-03-08 23:41:31 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋