Problem is that he wants to do the picking. And is very pushy about it. I really want to try being with another women. I love my husband but he is over-weight and has let himself go in the yrs we have been together. I guess I do have some insecurities about the whole thing. He has said that I could try on my own and then include him later. I have questions - What if she is not interested in him? Tell me what to do?
2006-06-15 05:54:14 · 6 answers · asked by Lisa R 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Be careful. I had the same thing happen years ago. But we swapped with another couple. My husband (Overweight & pushy) started the whole thing, ended up they kept solicitating me and wanted nothing to do with him!
2006-06-16 15:45:46 · answer #1 · answered by Helzabet 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oddly I have this same problem. But, my taste are very differant then my hubby's in women. My hubby is also overwieght. I wouldn't worry about if shes interested in him. But if its a worry then make sure you find someone whos is at willing and not worry about interested in him. He can always enjoy the show or be with you while you with her right without being with the girl.Have fun and enjoy. I would do it but set guidelines for what exceptable and whats not.
2006-06-15 13:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by mcalano77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it looks like you're having your own insecurities about your relationship with your husbaand, and I think you need to work it out with him before you pursue trying to get someeone else in the picture....
2006-06-15 12:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by Chef Shortie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Your hubby is being a jerk.
2006-06-15 13:53:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a feeling it will end in divorce. so what to do? avoid it. or dump him.
2006-06-21 23:26:19 · answer #5 · answered by patric 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't do it. Your marriage will over if you do!
2006-06-15 13:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by Punky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋