Can we speak 2 each other subconcsiously?

Question

There's this hot guy in my calculus class and he sits at the desk to my right. The class was very boring yesterday so i began doodling on my paper.
I've always thought this guy was hot, but he needed 2 rethink his hairdo, he'd been wearing it the same way since last quarter when i 1st met him. So while doodling i wrote on my scribbled paper: "What has he done to his hair!" Of course he didnt see this coz i neva comment on pples appearances unless my opinion is asked. Today he came in with a brand new haircut looking mighty fine! I was shocked. Cud my question have reached him telepathically? Has this sorta thing eva happened 2 u guys?

Answer 1

The hairdo incident is a coincidence. However, we speak with each other on a subconscience level via body language all the time. In fact, body language is used more to communicate than verbal speach. You could be saying "I think you new hair cut is so cute!" but your body language tells those who are looking that you actually do not like it at all. When talking to somebody you are angry with you can pretend everything is Ok with your words, but your body language will give you away if the person is paying attention. Usually people do pay close attention to body language. The body language system goes back to the days we were still learning to speak vocally. We used our bodies, hand movements, facial expressions to get across what we are trying to communicate. We still do this with babies. We use it also when attempting to communicate with those who do not speak out language. We also play a game, called "charades" which uses only facial expresions, body movements, hand movement and sounds. Words are not allowed. As we play this game we become more adept at noticing and interpretating body language, so this game is actually a great tool in learning great communication skills.

Now, our body chemistry is a mystery. We have chemicals called pheromones which will attract or repel others. When we our attracted to somebody our chemicals are comingling causing a strong chemical reaction. Many mistakenly interpret this attraction as a signal something is wrong in their current relationship, act on this attraction and totally ruin the relationship they are in. It is important for each of us to understand that physical attraction will dissapait over time if it is NOT acted upon. Even when it is acted upon it will fizzle and die eventually if there is not an emotional connection established during the hot and steamy sexual encounters. This lack of emotional attachment is easy to occure as those we may find physically attractive due to the chemical reaction does not neccassarity mean the person has any traites we find attractive at a personal level. So, sadly, many ruin good relationships by cheating or leaving when they encounter somebody who they share a strong chemical physical reaction with. These attractions do indeed disapait in time, and if not acted upon a time will come when you look at the person you once thought so attractive and wonder what you ever saw in the person. I know how true this is as I had this occur on numerous occasions. I did not act on them thank God, due to the advice from my fahter. I was married the first tme I encounterd this strong physical chemical reaction between myself and another. I was young and confused. How could I be so attracted to somebody other than my husband? Did this mean I did not love my husband as much as I thought I did? If I loved my husband how is it possible for me to be so physically attracted to another man? I went to my father (it was always he who taught me the things I need to know, lol) and he explained pheromones and the chemical reaction between two who have chemicals which are attracted to each ohter, rather like two magnets. He told me it was normal to have these reactions, but the key is not to act on them, if you don't then it will soon disapate and I will no longer feel the attraction. I trusted my dad imensly, and so even though it seemed impossible such a strong attraction could just "go away", I did what he adviced and he was right!! In about a month I looked at the same man and did not feel any attraction for him at all. Amazing to say the least. Thank God for my father, othewise I may have ruined a wonderful marriage to a man who I deeply loved and who loved me as deeply too. we stayed married up to his death after fourteen years of marriage.

So, yes, we can read others subconsciensly and have pheromones which cause strong physical reactions of attraction. However, your writng down something about this guy needing a new and different haircut is a total coincidence. Unless you are a phycic then he was planning this haircut without any interferance from you at all. Those with true phycic abilities are few and far between though they do exist.

Answer 2

Either someone commented on his hair recently or u gave his hair a dirty look....only way you'll know is if you asked him what was his motives behind changing his hairdo.

Answer 3

well he could have seen even if you didn't intend or notice it.

Once, when i was like 15 me and this kid were riding bicycles and we just mouthed words, then we just nodded heads and it seemed we had a very long talk. After i asked him some questions and it seems like we both understood what was said. it was wierd.

Answer 4

Of course we can. Especially twins!

Answer 5

yes we can. its called body language and pheremones. look them up and apply it to your life. it will work.

Answer 6

coincidence