it he roomate and she does not like me at all. she tell him she hate me for the dumb reason. i want to be nice to her. but how? everytime i try to be she fine something eles she hate about me. ( she getting married) help please
2006-06-15 05:35:58 · 19 answers · asked by doll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I wouldn't worry about it. She's getting married, then you can be his roommate.
2006-06-15 05:37:47 · answer #1 · answered by Joe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if there is one thing in life that I've learnt is that you can't make any one like you and if they don't like you for no aparrent reason than it is probably their stuff so I would say let them own it! I once had to work with a lady who for some reason didn't care for me and I never did anything wrong to her. I also really didn't want to know what her problem was with me cause I wasn't her friend so that did not concern me and really it was none of my business. The only thing I was concerned with was, she was like my supervisor so she could make my life difficult at work. I told a friend of mine my situation and she asked me what do you like about her..... that got me thinking and i could find things that were nice about her.....like she is a hard worker, does her job well, she is an attractive person. So I focused on the positive that I saw in her instead of the negative and, low and behold her attitude about me changed. I had not even said a word to her about how she was treating me. She even gave me a birthday gift, which almost floored me!
The real moral of the story is let people own their own stuff and we can own our own without buying into their negative feelings, because after all they may have just had a family crisis!
I also believe in the Law of Attraction~ the law may not be smart or judgemental but I've learnt that it is obedient, meaning that if you surround yourself with negative feelings you'll get more because the law of attraction just gives you what your putting out it does not judge it to see if it is negative or positive it just gives you more of what you are giving out. I say have good thoughts & vibrations and you'll get more back!!!! Good thoughts & vibes to You~ 'cause you are wonderful and you care about people!!!!!
2006-06-15 06:06:12 · answer #2 · answered by Liane M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing you can do . she has an option of you sounds like its set in stone. you know your boyfriend is obviously friends with her so hes probably telling her things when you 2 fight or have arguments, just for someone to talk to. or she just senses something about you that we cant see cause we don't know you. or even maybe your boyfriend is lieing and saying things she never said just to keep you 2 from becoming friends cause he doesn't want you 2 talk to much and find out what he does when your not around, cause if she hates you then shell want him to date other people but if your friends she might tell you. im just throwing some options out there
2006-06-15 05:42:46 · answer #3 · answered by bambi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its definately time to take a seat with your roommate (and easily your roommate) and communicate this out immediately. it is your position too and think ofyou've got the right to stay with ease and unafraid on your own residence. If she received't comprehend that, both come across a clean roommate or a clean position. she will have the capacity to easily proceed to stroll throughout you and convey domicile those "boyfriends." undergo in concepts that your protection is at stake the following. do not settle for excuses or tantrums for her habit. you are able to in no way be positive that this style of "boyfriends" received't damage or rape you.
2016-11-14 19:44:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um... just don't talk to her or anything and just stay away from the roommate. You and your boyfriend have your own relationship, her getting married is none of your business, and your relationship with your boyfriend is none of her business. Just ignore each other, it makes life simple.
2006-06-15 05:38:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, and don't worry if the room mate likes you or not. Especially if she is about to be married. She should soon be out of the picture
2006-06-15 05:39:31 · answer #6 · answered by LORI W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is saying the girl her boyfriend is living with doesn't like her.
as for your question, just forget about her unless she still plans on living with your boyfriend after she gets married. your boyfriend should say something.
2006-06-15 05:41:19 · answer #7 · answered by midnightrose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend has a female roomate??
Um, tell her to piss off and leave, already. You're dating him, not his roomate.
2006-06-15 05:38:31 · answer #8 · answered by dulcetpurr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her. You dont have to be nice to her cause she has no relations to your man. Tell her if she hates you so what, you dont care. You cant please all people, and people will hate you for the most stupidest reasons.
2006-06-15 05:39:26 · answer #9 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I expect when she marries, she'll be moving out, so that should solve your problem. In the meantime, simply avoid her. DONT go to his place.
2006-06-15 05:39:37 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋