tell me the saddest moment of your life. how did u cope with it
2006-06-15 04:53:00 · 10 answers · asked by anthonygonzalvez 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell me the saddest moment of your life. how did u cope with it. i lost a frend a week back. 15 year old girl. very lively and godlooking .a lorry ran over her while she ws returning frm schol. shes got 2 more sisters . mother is dieing of hiv and father dsnt stay with them. i dont understand how god cud b so cruel. there is no god.
2006-06-15 04:54:56 · update #1
My husband died in November 2005. He had a heart attack in the front yard of our home and died before the ambulance could get him to the hospital. At first you don't cope because you are numb. Then I got angry. We had only been married a year though we had been together for four years to the day. I was angry that he died and so scared and alone. The first two months are kind of a blur. I started dating again in late January. That did not last real long. My boyfriend is a man I have known 12 years. He came where I was and moved me back home after my husband died. I guess I coped by picking myself up and dusting myself off then living again. Everyone deals differently in losing someone. I cry often still. Its hard. Things will remind me of him and I bite back tears. My boyfriend just holds my hand and waits until I talk about it. You cope a little everyday. Everyday it hurts just a tiny bit less. Everyday you remember less of the pain and more of the good stuff that happened. I am glad that I moved on and decided to get involved again because my boyfriend is my best friend and I can tell him anything and he understands. I doubt I will ever fully cope with my husband's death... sometimes you just don't. But I am not angry at him anymore and I am living again and that is probably the best I can do right now. Its been seven months. Someday it will really be easier.
2006-06-15 05:05:55 · answer #1 · answered by Onegoddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the saddest moment in my life was when my son went to live with his father. I don't know if I've actually coped with it 100% since it's happened, or if I've just kept myself so busy with life that I don't let the thought get to me like it used to. I know I did what was the best for my son, but as a mother, that never makes it any easier! I wonder what he'll think of me when he is older----will he love me the way I love him? Will he understand the decision I made? I can't help it! I only see him every other weekend now, and that is just sooooo hard for me. I constantly have to remind myself that I did what was best for my son, but still, it never makes it ANY easier! And it's been 4 years now!
2006-06-15 05:20:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The saddest moment was when my father died when I was 13, Im now 31 and I still hurt, I have 2 kids and It hurts that he's not here to see them.
And there is a God, He has plans for your friend. Everything happens for a reason. I truely believe that. I pray for you to have strength during this difficult time. God Bless.
2006-06-15 05:07:54 · answer #3 · answered by saraidan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The saddest moment of my life is when my mom divorced with my dad! After some time, i realize that she also has her difficulty. But now i do whatever i do before. I still as usual. But my mother promise me to take me to my dad 3 months 1 time. I will always look forward for that day.
2006-06-15 04:58:21 · answer #4 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with ladyt3k. My saddest moment of my life was losing my mom, Christmas eve 2005. She was the and still is the love of my life! I miss her dearly and I don't think i will ever fully recover. But you have to learn to deal with it crying definitely helps. Take things day by day.
2006-06-15 10:43:52 · answer #5 · answered by hips don't lie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a GOD and HE does care about everyone one of his children on earth but what people tend to forget or don't know is that GOD only comes into your life if you ask HIM and when you keep a constant relationship with HIM through heartfelt and sincere prayer. Sometimes bad things happen to people because we fall out of even GOD's control because we want to do what we want and keep HIM out of that part of our lives. IF YOUR DON'T WANT HIM THERE HE WON'T COME. And then when something bad happens we wonder where HE is. The sad times make you stronger and bring you closer to the realization of who HE is. And that is how I get through all my sad times
2006-06-15 05:25:29 · answer #6 · answered by ladyt3k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first i pray to god for ur friend, and symapthy with you,
the saddest moment was when my grandma and my best boyfriend expire, after this i change my life, ok please i do not want to share sad moments, it may sad again u and me
Regards,
Vikas Kumar,
hi_lovegirls@yahoo.com
2006-06-15 05:02:27 · answer #7 · answered by nicefriendvikas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when my dad died. i had a baby to take care of, so i had to go on.
2006-06-15 04:57:05 · answer #8 · answered by baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's a lorry?
2006-06-15 04:56:24 · answer #9 · answered by marcus_aurelius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wife died and my little girl
2006-06-15 04:55:58 · answer #10 · answered by finnlecarb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋