i need advice about sex!!?

Question

me an my boyfriend just started having sex and he likes it unprotected but i want to use a condom .. the only problem is wen we stop so he can put a condom on he goes soft an we jus start havin unprotected sex again !! now i dont want to stop but i want to use protection should i tell him or should we keep on ?? and if so0 how?

Answer 1

He's going soft huh? Is he gay? Are you ugly? When I first started having sex I was hard pretty much 24 hours a day. I mean I had to beat it down with a hammer before attending church on Sundays. At any rate you need to be using protection. There is nothing hot about baby mammas in middle school...

Answer 2

Here is my two cents, My girlfriend didn't want protected sex, she said it doesn't feel as good, I wanted to but after her talking me into it we just never brought up condoms again. Now we are at a point where we have stopped having sex till marriage because she took a preganacy test and she showed POSITIVE, OMG I was so worried but I am still thrilled that she is pregant with me and we are having a child and we both love each other very much. We are at a point in our lives where having a child is not a good time, College in the fall and everything, I am not sure how old you are but the only safe sex is NO SEX, I am 18 & shes 18 We see now why parents and people tell you the only safe sex is No Sex. This Info Next is From ABBA Womens Medical Center; Birth Control works 50% of the time, Condoms Work About The Same. Now More Info From Me, Please If You End Up Pregant Don't Have An Abortion, I would never ask my soon to be wife to have an abortion, the rest of you life would be filled with endless questions like what if, I love her and would never want her to go through that, It's A Hard Road So Be Careful, Best Wishes To You, Zack.

Answer 3

I suggest you go to your local health department or to a pharmacy (Walgreens) they do make condoms for women also. They protect against STDs and pregnancy.
If you are not ready to be a mother stop having sex now.
I was on the pill, we used a (male) condom and spermicide and I now have a beautiful 6 1/2 year old daughter. Don't always think that protection is going to keep you from getting pregnant...it's NOT.
The chances of protecting yourself from STDs are uped when protection is used but do not always work. If he does not get the condom up high enough and he has something the skin that is exposed can cause you to catch wahtever he may have.

Answer 4

Definitely use protection, no matter what. Remember AIDS will kill you. KILL YOU. It is like sticking a gun to your head with only a few chambers having bullets, each time you have sex, you are taking a chance that the bullet is in the wrong spot.

A way to get around your problem, is you be in charge of putting on the condom, and you practicing on how to get it out, and on as quickly as possible, so that you can get back to what you were doing. Just have to be quick. it takes awhile to go limp, and the fact that he has to concentrate on something else, makes him limp. So you get the job. You will find that using a condom, will make him last a little longer too. If it is tight, that is.

Well, I hope you are old enough to have sex, and hope that you take my words of advice, and NEVER have unprotected SEX.

Answer 5

That's a big no no u have to be protected. How do u feel about oral sex?? U could do that i'd suggest before penetration then slip the condom on before penetration. Or u could do it after penetration before it's time to put on the condom to make sure he stays hard. I say before because anytime he enters u without a condom is a chance u'll get pregnant. Protecting urself i really important u can get hpv which most women don't know they have and least to cerival cancer or u can get worst like Aids.

Answer 6

He should put the condom on before the sex starts, not stop and then try to put it on. If you do not want to get pregnant, I really suggest you stop having sex all together. Condoms can break.

Answer 7

If you are all for catching AIDS and other STDs, then hey why not? Right?? Is that the route that you want to go? Do you honestly want to put yourself in that kind of danger?

Girl use your head - if he doesn't want to use a condom, then tell him he can't get any. Or else you are just another chick who gives in too easily. And you know you don't want that kind of a reputation, now do you?

Answer 8

if he don't like wearing condons than you need protected for yourself, try to get on some birth control, and than if he do come in you will not have to think about if you are pregnat the only thing with him cumming in you is you might get infection or a std but you should teach him to wear a condum sometimes birth contro don't work that how i got my first, i try the patch, and i used i right it was not that strong from what they told us, 6 week later i was pregant and june3 i had a baygirl so what every you protected you self if is worth it i promise

Answer 9

USE A CONDOM. Not only to NOT get PG, but you could get a life long illness. Your right he's wrong. If he doesn't like it TO BAD, No condom, not sex. He he loves you and cares about you then he'll be okay with it.

Answer 10

It's difficult to be young and faced with very adult decisions. In your heart you know what is right and what is best, but you are afraid that if you don't do what he wants to do then he will not want to be with you and dump you.......and then you will be alone. If you don't protect yourself now, then who will? Your actions now could effect you the rest of your life. Iknow that is hard for you to understand now, but someday you will look back and realize I was right.
Do what is best for you! If he has been tested and proven to be disease free then you can consider gfoing on the pill to protect you from pregnancy.
IF HE DOESN'T RESPECT YOU ENOUGH TO PROTECT YOU AND HIMSELF YOU HAD BETTER RE-THINK YOUR RELATIONSHIP.