here the people like me.. but i am not well known among them how do i get along well plzz help me
2006-06-15 04:28:10 · 4 answers · asked by Alytia B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hi!
Be friendly to people and treat them the way that you want them to treat you. Do nice things for people. Find a church whether you are a Christian or not. Going to church is a good way to meet people. Besides meeting people, you get to sing and have good Christian fellowship. Churches have what they call socials which are parties. They also have covered dish supper which is where every person brings one dish of food and then it is all put together and everybody eats it buffet style and then visits with their friends and their visitors.
Remember that Jesus Himself said, "Treat others the way that you would have them to treat you." He also said, "Don't judge." Also, Jesus wasn't big on hipocrisy. It made Him mad. Don't be a hypocrite. If you know of someone less fortunate than you, you might become a special friend to this person. Talk with her, send her cards, call her on the phone if she has one, write letters to her and if you have a car and she doesn't, offer to take her shopping with you. You will find that you have made a new friend this way and besides this, you did something good and it makes you feel good inside.
In short, the way to get people to like you is to be a friend to them. Some people will return your friendship and some will not. This is only human nature. In order to be well known among the people, you must go where they are like a church. This is the best place. If they are having a covered dish supper, offer to bring a salad if that is what you make the best or a meatloaf, or mashed potatoes, or baked potatoes or something that you can make really well. If you are not a cook, that is O.K. too. You can help with putting the food all together and help with the serving. You can do such things as to get the serving spoons from the church kitchen and then afterwards you can help wash the dishes.
2006-06-15 04:44:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You start off conversations about nothing. But to get along with people you need to realize that everyone is different and have different opinions.
2006-06-15 04:35:52 · answer #2 · answered by jad26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since they like you, it should be easy. Simply be friendly, kind, and respect their opinions. Verbal communication is enjoyable, in that you learn about them and they learn about you as well.
2006-06-15 04:41:03 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b ur normal self and try to mix with everyone
2006-06-15 04:55:06 · answer #4 · answered by midas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋