2006-06-15 04:27:09 · 16 answers · asked by lexy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If a man is into porn, eventually he begins to believe that the behavior he is watching is normal and will begin to seek out avenues to play out these fantasies. (Know from experience) Also, if a man is constantly engrossed in porn, he is cheating on his wife because he is mentally participating, the same way we all participate while watching a game or good movie (G Rated to R Rated of Course). Unfortunately, because porn is readily available, and not against the law for adults, then it's acceptable by many and even considered the norm. However, child sexual abuse and abduction is on the up rise. Many psychiatric professionals are blaming these acts of violence on porn. If I discovered my husband was into porn, I would demand he get help for his problem or I would leave, especially if I had young children in the home. Improper sex is very hurtful to everyone concerned. It has nothing to do with love and all to do with power. This is a serious problem in our society which is dehumanizing and degrading to our race. The only way we can fight this is to avoid movies of strong sexual content and to also seek help if we are being driven to this way of life.
2006-06-15 04:51:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband is addicted to porn. He has been since he was an early teen. It has affected our sex life and other areas too. It has been hard for me to deal with as a wife because he has lied many times about it. I am not a prude be any means. If porn is getting in the way of a loving relationship it is a problem. We have been attending therapy in hopes to cure this terrible addiction. It has been 2 years that we have been working at it. There is no easy cure to an addiction to porn.
2006-06-15 11:41:55 · answer #2 · answered by Charity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost ALL guys look at porn. When I was younger, it made me mad but now that I'm older, I know there are more important things to ***** about, lol. I wouldn't get jealous,, cuz it's not like they're ever gonna get laid like that, and I would get offended because it's usually just a guy's way of having fantasies or relieving stress or maybe even a hobby. As long as he's still having sex with you...I wouldn't worry about it. And I actually watch porn every now and then too...it makes me horny and want to f*ck my boyfriend like crazy. lol.
2006-06-15 11:33:08 · answer #3 · answered by Jenn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any activity which interfers with your normal daily life is an addiction. What does it matter if it is porn or drugs or smoking or sex or whatever. Addiction is bad, and you should be upset by it.
2006-06-15 11:30:18 · answer #4 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby loves porn but its part of being with a man. You just get used to it or not. Men have to look at porn, it whats makes them happy!!!!!!!!!!1
2006-06-15 11:32:35 · answer #5 · answered by tiffany b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and I was with my ex husband. He went from being addicted to porn to being addicted to cheating.
Men don't 'have' to look at porn. My fiance stopped looking at it once he met me. He now has me instead of magazines to please him. He has thrown away his magazines and doesn't plan on ever getting one again.
2006-06-15 13:33:15 · answer #6 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if he refused to have sex with me and rather have sex with the porn then yes i would be upset . if we still have sex and make love i dont care what he does in the spare time .
2006-06-15 11:40:37 · answer #7 · answered by insertstrawhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all men watch porn. why would it make me up set. at least he is not out doing it with soemone else. i rather him do that then bring something home.
2006-06-15 11:37:52 · answer #8 · answered by jenniffer m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i sure would be but i would talk to him about it and try to seek help with him for it so that he could get past it. I would try to love and help him through it. But if he did not want to change and get help i would leave!
2006-06-15 13:31:11 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No b/c most men are it's their private jerk off time and thing to do some men may watch it and your sex that night may be incredible so don't be so hard on it.
2006-06-15 11:29:10 · answer #10 · answered by Danette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋