Well the thing is that im in love with a guy. He says he only looks at me as a friend. We have been doing all that couple stuff but we never went out. It was mostly when we were with our close friends. After 3 years of him cheating on his girlfriend whom he tells me he really loves, he told me he only likes me as a friend. That hurt me a lot but then again, when we're alone he'll talk to me all sweet. and hes told me he loved me. I've catched him looking at me a couple of times. I mean hes areally good friend but i cant look at him as just a friend. what do i do with what i feel? & is he just playing with my feelings?
2006-06-15 04:08:37 · 13 answers · asked by no one knows 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
First thing, You can't change a man. If he was truly interested in you, he would make it known all the time. As the book says. "He's just not that into you". Sorry, not sure how old you are, but if your in HS, the guys just are not mature yet, and life is a game. Stay friends, or keep your distance and see if he seeks you out. If he cheats on the one he says he loves then He'll Cheat on you as well. Your worth more then that by far, find someone who doesn't play those petty games with your heart. As you get older you'll find that Men aren't complicated. They know what they want, they do what they want, and if you fit in thats great. They don't go the emotional direction we do. It is what it is when it comes to men.
2006-06-15 04:50:59 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are complicated because once they find a female that they can play games with and get away with playing games everytime, they figure, "Let the games begin." Why not tell her what she wants to hear when they're alone she's not going to trip! Here's some advice sweetheart LEAVE HIM ALONE!
2006-06-15 11:18:43 · answer #2 · answered by doverton26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey that sounds like my guy friend that is kinda my "boyfriend"he is so like that,because he is younger then me and stuff,but anyway we use to be togther but then he was talking with other girls at school(i'm homschooled)and I found out and was hurt and hes like they mean nothing to me,and we became friends and now were dating again but this is his last chance and he has to earn my trust back!But guys never relize what they got till it's gone,one day your guy is going to regret all the crudy stuff hes done.My boyfriend when we broke up his girlfreind cheated on him and now he knows how it feels.But good luck girl!sounds to me like hes just like my boyfriend tell him it's were friends or not!you can't keep leading me on!
2006-06-15 13:28:18 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Mariah™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so he has a gf that he's cheating on and you want to be the new gf? Hold up, hun, once a cheater always a cheater! If he brakes up with his gf now and goes out with you, how do you know he won't cheat on you?
He sounds like a player! and a jerk!
I would get over him and get over him fast!
Find some other guy who deserves your attention!
2006-06-15 11:23:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant help with what u feel buh guyz like messing with girls emotions because they wanna be big pimps an have every girl they can. if he really loved his girl friend he wuldve never cheated on her an iif he really loved you then he wouldnt be playin you as a fool !!! u should move on an see your other options because you are going to waste your time chasing a guy who obviously doesnt want to be caught!!!
2006-06-15 11:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by loves to shop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
complicated mens do you know,its a multiple character,i didnt find any complication in the case,you love him but he loves another and he is quite interested in you as the age matters.thats all.the solution is also simple just leave him.search the other.
2006-06-15 11:49:06 · answer #6 · answered by dadoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a right jerk to me! if you want my opinion hes trying to play the field & keeping you in resevre, dont take this crap, find some one who will respect you, theres plenty out there
2006-06-15 11:12:53 · answer #7 · answered by Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most of them are total JERKS and inconsiderate and don't care about anyone else other than themselves
2006-06-15 11:42:16 · answer #8 · answered by Julie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys complicated, hahahahahahahahahaaaa!
That is like the funniest thing I heard all day!
2006-06-15 11:11:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because thier just complicated...
2006-06-15 11:18:55 · answer #10 · answered by ->>LA-LA<<- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋