I'm single, never married and no kids...why are guys more attracted to a woman who is divorced 3 times with 5 kids all from different guys?!?! I've got a stable job, a nice car, my own place...and a really nice and sweet person. But it seems all the men I date leave me for women who already have kids and lots of baggage!! Whats wrong??
2006-06-15 04:04:29 · 7 answers · asked by Redneck Chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You date stupid men - that's why.
2006-06-15 04:10:32 · answer #1 · answered by steve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya know, sometimes I wonder why my guy pursued me considering my 2 youngest son's are 5 & 8 and I also have 2 more son's ages17 & 20. His youngest daughter is almost 18 & his oldest daughter is 23. So I do wonder why on earth he was even interested in me & when the day is crazy & there are kid's everywhere, mine & the neighbor kid's or when my 2 lil' guy's are fighting like brothers do, this is when I really wonder. So I have asked my man why & he responded with that I intrigued him and the more he got to know me, the more he wanted to know me. He's been a true blessing to my boy's & I too. All of my son's are fartherless. First hubby died of lung cancer 4 years ago (divorced at time of death), he's the father of my 3 oldest son's & my second husband comitted suicide last year (we were separated due to his alcoholisim & bipolar), he's the father of my youngest son. So I am very thankful to have been blessed with such a great man. He's good to us, he's good for us, he's sexy, he's stable, he's dedicated, he's sweet, he's honest, he's loving oh & did I mention sexy? My guy tells me the kid's help him to stay young. When we met, I had my own place, a new car, money in the bank & I am down to earth. The kid's & I now live with my man & have for 4 month's now & there are plans of marriage & a home purchase together very soon.
Anyway, I don't think it's something "wrong" with you!! You just have not met Mr. Right yet, it took me 2 failed marriages & lots of years to meet my Mr. Right. When your not looking is when he will arrive in your life just like mine did & trust me, a relationship was the last thing on my mind when I met my man.
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2006-06-15 05:34:24 · answer #2 · answered by maryannmccarthy2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 2 children and yes I attract a lot of men....fine men! I think that what attracts guys to ME is the fact that I am a hard worker and I haven't had anything handed to me. I had to get my own car. I had no rich daddy to buy me one. I have to find my own jobs. There are no family "hook-ups". I struggle very much the same way a man struggles. I have to depend on myself. Guys like that because they know that I can be a help-mate to them, not a burden- wanting clothes and shoes all the time. I'm out there handling business. And stop hatin!!!!!Please! There is nothing wrong with a man wanting a strong woman. Us mothers had to go through some things to get our wisdom but we have it and are thankful and believe it or not, a lot of women with children have more sense than women without children. A lot of us have had to learn things the hard way and now we have our heads on straighter than ever. And we have to be strong for our children. Men LIKE strong women who work , who bust down doors for opportunities. They respect that more than someone who can just call up a friend of the family and get the pot of gold.
2006-06-15 04:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure that is true, but for arguments sake I'll say that divorced women with kids are little more motivated to have a wild time. They can't just go out and party whenever they want to, so they will tend to get a bit crazier and appreciate it more. They are also very busy in their own lives, so they will not be a constant time consumer to the boyfriends. Guys don't like commitment right.
2006-06-15 04:10:53 · answer #4 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men like the idea of a ready made family b/c they don't have to go through the entire pregnancy thing some men just love kids. I mean it's not a bad thing for a man to feel that way, some men may not want kids of their own so they tend to go for women with them already.
2006-06-15 04:31:02 · answer #5 · answered by Danette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These men could be attracted to these women maybe bcoz they see something in these women. They were hurt in previous rship and became more matured as a person. Maybe that was what attractive in them
2006-06-15 04:20:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men are attracted to independent, mature, down-to-earth women rather than needy, inmature, bossy princesses like you.
2006-06-15 04:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋