My heart wants him so bad and I know in my head I cannot have him. (We are both married). How can I shut my heart off? What is in your heart is much stronger than what is in your head! He just makes me happy and makes me feel so good. (we have never had any kind of physical interaction- it is pure emotion).
2006-06-15 04:04:26 · 9 answers · asked by crazytexasgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Head? Or heart? Well, they're kind of like two dogs, to make a point. The one that gets the strongest, is the one you feed the most. Right now, you're "feeding" your heart the most, so it rules! Get your heart out of it, and start using your head! If you KNOW, you can't have them, why punish yourself thinking you might? Get your mind off him, and on your husband and family. Good Luck!
2006-06-15 04:16:05 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always heard follow your heart. Your heart is already wrapped up into him so a sexxual affair is out of the question. Sounds as though you are having an emotional affair already. How does he feel about you?
It is sad that both of you are already married because the best relationships are built on emotion instead of physical attraction. The closer you become emotionally, the closer you want to be physically. Sounds a little exciting to me....
2006-06-15 11:18:38 · answer #2 · answered by texasgirl5454312 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop seeing him. Don't call him. Ignore him in the halls. Eventually it will go away. Start refocusing all that passion on your husband. Try marriage councelling. But don't let this emotional affair continue. Its not fair to anyone.
2006-06-15 11:08:07 · answer #3 · answered by Velken 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your heart, but make sure you won't have any regrets in your rest of life. Is he honest to you? or the way he does treat to any women. you should considering many problems could happen.
2006-06-15 16:57:12 · answer #4 · answered by lizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop all unnecessary contact with him. If you work with him then only see him when you absolutely have to. it's mind over matter, if you really want to move on and stop thinking about him, then just do it and stop saying "you can't". Because you can.
2006-06-15 11:39:47 · answer #5 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh this is gonna be SO tough for you....but you have to choose ...fast !!! The longer you let this drag on, the harder it gets. Listen to that inner voice of yours. Good luck to you.
2006-06-15 11:55:55 · answer #6 · answered by kayla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got married for a reason remeber that and turn it back on for your hubby!
2006-06-15 11:12:18 · answer #7 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart.
2006-06-15 11:23:24 · answer #8 · answered by pjthedj247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop seeing him. come and see me
2006-06-15 11:55:04 · answer #9 · answered by river_runs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋