I try all kinds of things with her things dont seem to change does any one have any answers.
2006-06-15 03:49:21 · 8 answers · asked by m g 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Alot of women in this situation have low self esteem and are down in the dumps. You can point out your observations to her in a non confrontational way and ask her if she's willing to try counseling.
2006-06-18 03:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by badmikey4 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First, you need to find out who is abusing her. Her boyfriend? Her teacher? Her father even? Because abuse is a very serious thing, though she may not be aware of it. Sit down with her and talk to her. Ask what you could do to help. Tell her that you care, and you love her. Be by her side and make her feel safe, because thats what she wants right now. If you can't do this, she may want to talk to a school counsler or a proffesional in this area.
Remember that, next time she is abused she can call an abuse hotline or go to a help website, or even call the police.
But make sure she is telling you EVERYTHING so you can help her with EVERYTHING.
Hope this helps,
Kira
2006-06-15 11:32:36 · answer #2 · answered by KiriKat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is sayin"experience is a hard teacher it u the test first and then the lesson". as her to be strong and face the situational truth they way it is as it is without any coating of lies.
life is hard, sometimes to save a life we have to amputate a body part thinkin that way let her vomit out the feelings of hurst distress , frustration, rejection
emotions do help........... but not always some more thinking of past wont get the things undone so ask her to stop..... stop burning her mind and heart and try to start a new life with new sunshine on her face
counselling is a good suggestion but ur part in being firm and loving will also help
so try r best she needs u take care
2006-06-15 11:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by may_minu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as this is she has fallen into a cycle and only she can break herself of the cycle. You can offer kind words and most importantly support but you can not force her to change. Suggest to her counseling etc to find out why she keeps going this way but again you can not force her to do anything.
Good luck!
2006-06-15 10:53:23 · answer #4 · answered by foolnomore2games 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You as the parent reconizes that their is a pattern with your daughter, I think that maybe you should advise your daughter to seek counciling, Or go with her, We as peopple tend to pick our mate base on our perception of what we idealize they should be like. I think that low self-esteem plays an issue in this and perhaps, you have to step in and tell her what you feel. Counseling is a first step..
2006-06-15 10:59:17 · answer #5 · answered by lashawn0676 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is in a circle only she can break all you can do is be there for her and try to help her. maybe try to take her to council but if she doesn't want to get help she cant be help.
2006-06-15 11:28:47 · answer #6 · answered by kathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she needs counsling or something hope is get a better man soon
2006-06-15 10:53:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to counseling.
2006-06-15 11:05:55 · answer #8 · answered by saint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋