Understanding men?

Question

what does it take for them to be ever faithful?

Answer 1

that's a choice that the man has 2 make.

Answer 2

1: They have to want it. (If he doesn't want to be faithful, stop here, nothing else matters.)

2: The woman has to be willing to work on keeping the man.

3: Both need to agree to a no-secret policy. I know all my wife's passwords (email, etc.) and she knows all mine. When one of her friends told me that she was spying on me (reading my email) the other day, I said, "Good. Now she knows I'm not cheating." That's a little extreme for some couples, but at least no secrets is important.

4: Never deny sex three times the same week unless you've got a medical reason. Period counts as a medical reason. Any medical reason that goes on for a month needs medical attention. Pregnancy gets medical attention.

5: Make your husband the most important man ever. If he feels like just another man, then he'll feel like you're just another woman. Things that could make him feel less important than another man: something you did with him you won't do with hub, something you never did to him that you do to hub, needing to keep him around and available, etc.

6: Food, water, clothing, basic necessitates of life.

7: Don't send him off alone for more than three days.

8: Don't go off alone for more than three days.

9: Be one body and spirit. One body and spirit doesn't take separate vacations, doesn't complain about loosing individuality, doesn't get upset at hearing the thoughts of the rest of the spirit (even if the mind dislikes those fantasies, notice I didn't say one mind.)

Then ne will have neither reason nor opportunity to cheat.

Answer 3

Some men are some aren't. I have been with my wife since I was 16,(I'm 28 now) she's the only girl I've ever been with and I've never even almost cheated. I think it has a lot to do with how you were raised. I was raised by a single mom, so I have a huge amount of respect for women, I just don't think it's right to disrespect them by being dishonest.

I don't think most guys are cheaters, but you definitely have to find the right one

Good luck

Answer 4

You haven't met the right man. Right now you have only met guys. Guys never grow up, only think with their *****, and can't really focus on anything but themselves. What you need is a man - a person who is well rounded, has the same morals that you do, cherishes the relationship that you two have together. Even though the guy has hurt you, be glad that you are rid of him.

Answer 5

True love will warrant you faithfulness, you will know when you have found true love, there is a connection that is unexplainable, it's as if you have known that person all your life and it is meant to be with them for the rest of your life, but, all relationships have ups and downs, no relationship is perfect.

Answer 6

Some can't just like some women, they don't have it in them.
Others as long as you are taking care of their needs physically and emotionally they are yours forever. It's a matter of talking to them and watching to make sure that their words match their actions. It's a matter of their character. What they believe and how they behave.

Answer 7

they need to grow up first before they are ready for that committment. if they are forced then it is going to make the repressed child come out and rebel agaist you like you are the "mother" figure.

they eventually can be faithful, but it has to be their own choice.

Answer 8

They are NEVER faithful. Its all up to them on how well they hide things from you.

Answer 9

it takes two to tango...1)you need to satisfy and be good to him and 2)he should love you enough (really hooked into you) not to astray...there are no formulas for this....but communication plays an important role...

i don't believe that "all" men are polygamous...there are still rare finds and you should do all in your power to keep him..

Answer 10

im faithful, with me its one woman at a time.