Notice how I say "girls" cause that's what alot of you act like. Seriously, you need to learn that guys are visually stimulated (if you didn't know already) and many married guys get bored having sex with the same person over and over and over again. So porn is a refreshing change to see something different. At least he is just watching it instead of out cheating on you with the real thing. Why don't you join him while he watches it, it will get you both in the mood. Another reason guys wach porn is you are probably becoming unattractive to him, such as gaining weight or what not. So this is something you just need to learn to deal with, cause even steak and lobster get boring when you eat it every day. So it's time to grow up ladies and stop crying.
Source of info: All my married friends.
2006-06-15 03:22:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am glad there are some of you that understand, this just pertains more to those women who are always bitching.
2006-06-15 03:28:53 · update #1
my wife likes to watch porn with me. I consider myself lucky with that. she likes to watch it more when we are having sex.
2006-06-15 03:29:20 · answer #1 · answered by Shocker3:16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we feel that they love it more then us and that we will never be able to compare. You dont always stay your best looking either and there are women who stay attractive and beautiful and dress sexy for their spouses and they still watch porn and look eslewhere. Porn twists the mind and makes you think of immoral and wrong things. It is very degrading to both men and women and they get paid to do that and they are porn stars who fake orgasms and there is no feeling and love involved. It is all about lust and desire and no loving or satisfying each other before pleasing yourself... It is a sin too and leads to other things like adultery. There is so much i can say but i will step off my soap box for now... I am done! We should not just have to learn how to deal with it. You took a vow to love and cherish us till death do you part and by doing this you are not!!!! How would you feel if your wife was lusting after other guys and getting off on them and flirting and things like this. How would this make you feel?
2006-06-15 05:19:13 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree totally with Lady Hewitt. I also have a personal experience with this. My ex husband looked at and watched porn ALL the time, not paying any attention to me, not cherishing me or our relationship. After he got tired of that, he went out and had numerous affairs. He could have easily brought something home (disease), but he luckily didn't.
And, believe it or not, my fiance does NOT look at/watch porn at all. He gave it up when he met me a year ago. He even threw his magazines away! He knows I don't approve of it and he doesn't need it because he has the real thing to look at and make love to, not someone fake. He only had it before because he had been living by himself for the past 8 or 9 years.
2006-06-15 06:51:33 · answer #3 · answered by honey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Getting bored having sex with the same person all the time works both ways.
Some creeps like my ex, would watch his porn to get excited alright. Then he would come to me for the sex alright. He would grab, choke and rape me so that he could have what he wanted. For him it was only a control issue. Yea, I just loved being raped and beaten, and treated like a prostitute. Not all sex is GREAT.
2006-06-15 03:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by oddbutterfly1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. That is just part of men that women should understand. Being stimulated by fantasy is something
embedded in men's Psyche, is harmless and quite normal. Us women should not take offense to that.
If you think that your man don't do that, think again, he just hasn't been caught yet. I have to admit that when I caught my bf with a Internet gal as a wallpaper I felt offended, but I realized that I was being ridiculous by being insecure, besides, I'm way hotter than they are.
Now, I don't care whether or not he does it anymore, he loves me and I am very confident, besides, is something that you can enjoy together once in a while.
Good luck
2006-06-15 03:33:47 · answer #5 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because some men are watching porn non stop and don't take the time to cherish the person already in their lives. Who's acting immature?
2006-06-15 03:28:28 · answer #6 · answered by moveplease 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once in a while is okay, but not all the time. I believe that if you watch that stuff it takes away from the intimacy of a relationship, even if you watch it together.
2006-06-15 04:03:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know some men like that extra arousal and some like to get that good jerk on when he's alone, at first I use to get jealous about it but know I allow him his porn time and I have mine.
2006-06-15 03:25:54 · answer #8 · answered by Danette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is porn the only sex you ever had? What do you know anything about women? And your blow up doll doesn't count.
2006-06-15 04:33:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I BELIEVE IT IS BECAUSE THEY ARE INSECURE OF THEMSELVES. I WATCH PORN WITH MY FIANCE RANDOMLY AND IT ALWAYS GETS US IN THE MOOD. YOU HAVE TO KEEP YOUR SEXUAL LIFE SPICED UP OR HE WILL GO SOMEWHERE ELSE WHERE HE FEELS IN CONTROL AND CAN TRY NEW THINGS. MEN LIKE CHALLENGES AND I HAVE LEARNED THAT IF YOU WANT TO KEEP YOUR MAN, YOU BETTER CHALLENGE HIM WITH NEW THINGS. IT HAS WORKED FOR ME FOR 9 YEARS AND TWO CHILDREN LATER.
2006-06-15 03:32:37 · answer #10 · answered by NaeNae 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋