my best friends mom isnt going to make it. i want to call her but i dont know what to say to her. theres nothing i can say to change whats happening and even im in shock about it. what do i do?!
2006-06-15 03:07:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just act naturally and dont say anything at all,or say I am sorry to hear about your mum and then quickly move on to something else
2006-06-15 03:15:19 · answer #1 · answered by dumplingmuffin 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
The best thing you can do for your friend is to let her know that you are there for her. She has a world of emotions going on inside her right now and has to deal with them. When you go through something like that, like you said-you can't change what will happen but just telling her that you are there will mean a lot. The just give her space-she may not call for awhile and that's ok...she is trying to deal. You can always send her a text or email letting her know that youare thinking of her.
2006-06-15 03:15:30 · answer #2 · answered by chocolatemartinigal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From my personal experience, my mom died in 2005 and my best friend was wonderful and still is. Like the others said just let her know you are there for her, but actually be there for her. Don't just say it and bail. Spend time with her and let her talk about how she is feeling, hug her and cry with her. Your freindship will be stronger and she will love you for it.
2006-06-15 10:59:30 · answer #3 · answered by hips don't lie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just call her and let her know that u are there for her if she needs u and that she can count on u if she needs a shoulder to cry on that if she needs anything that she can call u anytime
2006-06-15 03:18:34 · answer #4 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept this & Convince your best friend to accept this thing as it is ! Because, It cannot be changed !! So Accept it calmly !!!
2006-06-15 03:17:00 · answer #5 · answered by arun k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let her know that u r there 4 her & b there because she will really need u
2006-06-15 03:49:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋