If a woman approaches her husband for sex and he turns her away a lot does it mean he is having an affair or does not find her attractive anymore?
2006-06-15 02:51:36 · 19 answers · asked by missy1978 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That doesn't sound good, I have never met a man that will turn down sex. Talk to him about it and let him know how it makes you feel.
2006-06-15 02:55:15 · answer #1 · answered by carolinayaya 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Or he's under a lot of stress, or he's tired, or it's 11:30 at night and he has to wake up at 4:00am the next morning, or he's having a medical reason that causes him to not want it right now (high blood preasure or something) or he's on medication that cuts the drive, or he doesn't feel like he's pleasing her, or he suspects she's having an affair, or....
Oh, the short answer is "no." There are lots of reasons why this can happen.
2006-06-15 09:57:26 · answer #2 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be either. My question is has he become abusive toward you? If he has then he is probably having an affair. Does he spend a lot of time watching sports on TV? If so, he is probably not interested in you any more. Also, and I am not trying to be sarcastic, if you have gained some weight recently, he will lose interest and push you away.
2006-06-15 10:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by Stormy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are picky after marriage. If they go awhile without sex they can sometimes do without it. He probably isn't having an affair, but he may be losing interest. Talk to him, and ask why he doesn't want it anymore. Maybe you can find out what the problem is.
2006-06-15 09:54:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a lot of cases, yes it could mean both. Until you sit him down and ask him why, it'll just eat away at you. There are a million other reasons this could be happening, either physically or emotionally with him. Have an open and honest discussion.....don't leave it too long either. A lack of intimacy will quickly kill a marriage and leave you with a lot of self esteme issues to boot.
2006-06-15 09:58:08 · answer #5 · answered by Justlookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a regular thing? Honestly, sometimes guys just aren't in the mood. Stress, depression and fatigue can all mess with a guy so that he's just not interested.
If its happening all the time, then there is some kind of problem and you really need to talk about it. It may even need marriage counselling to work through.
2006-06-15 10:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by bigfirie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as a guy it doesn't nessesarily mean he's cheating but he might have his eye on someone else or he could feel that you don't listen to him and don't care how he feels so if you don't want to lose him why don't you try listening more if he don't talk much and seems to be cut of or daydreaming alot he might be having an affair
2006-06-15 10:44:39 · answer #7 · answered by viper7892 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just isnt ready for it...Sex is more of a thing that happens and not something you go up to the counter and say "Yes hi I would like to order sex".... Otherwise if you dont feel he likes you anymore..You can always ask him about it...Guys are very strange sometimes...
2006-06-15 09:55:24 · answer #8 · answered by ɫɦɾouɡɦ ɫɦɛ ɛɣɛʂ oʄ ɫɦɛ ɑvɛɴɢɛd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be both of those things..he could be distancing himself from you because he is having an affair. I think you should just ask him why the sudden change and what is going on.
2006-06-15 09:57:46 · answer #9 · answered by GoldenGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could, but it may mean he is having some erectile problems and is ashamed for the wife to know. As men age, they can't "stand to attention" at quickly or easy as before. He could just be having some medical problems and doesn't know how to handle it.
2006-06-15 10:02:40 · answer #10 · answered by Caleb's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋