I break off with my ex bf for 2 years now. But he still contact my mom and she loves him very much... my ex is a playboy and a sweet talker. So my mom believes him that my new bf caused our break off. But the only reason I hate my ex is that he is unfaithful and having another relationship behind my back. What should I do? It is even harder that I am not close with my mom since I was little. I do love my new bf and we planned to get married.
2006-06-15 02:42:01 · 6 answers · asked by emma 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
try talking to your mom and explain the real situation. Tell her how much it hurts you that you n her are not close anymore. also ask her if she is willing to go to counseling with you. Ignore the ex, he thinks he can hurt you by getting close to your mom. DON"T LET HIM GET TO YOU! That's his little game. Plan your wedding with the new BF and move on with your life. Good luck and hope you have a great life with the new BF.
2006-06-15 02:52:31 · answer #1 · answered by hooeypoohey1957 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay faraway from him for one million, and in case you sense threatened circulate to the police station and ask them what you're able to do. you're able to no longer might desire to sense that way. additionally confer with a relied on kinfolk member bout the placement and q them in on the type you sense and how scared you're. I wish you the proper, the main intense situation so you might do is purely too no longer get in touch with him in any respect. And in case you sense he's a threat don't be in places on my own have been you sense he might desire to randomly innovations-set you. Abusers like to isolate human beings and intimidate them. i'm no longer telling you to stroll around scared and afraid, yet purely be sense of right and incorrect. I even have been in a matching situation. the way I have been given out became by utilising stepping right into a clean area. i think of you're able to communicate on your mom and close kinfolk relating to the placement and what to do. wish I helped, God Bless!
2016-12-08 21:04:39 · answer #2 · answered by holness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to mom why you broke up with old BF. That is all you can really do.
It doesn't sound like he is harrassing your family. In fact your mom, from what you've written seems to be fine with his contact.
If he is bugging your mom she can take steps to get rid of him.
2006-06-15 03:26:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
reasure your new boyfriend that you want nothin to do wit your ex get married and move on if your mom is that bothered bout him let him be her problem p.s. check the hidden reason why him and your mon are so close
2006-06-15 02:52:30 · answer #4 · answered by helenamcdonagh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get the new boyfriend on the phone that should scare him off
2006-06-15 02:46:09 · answer #5 · answered by NEOTEH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
restraining order
2006-06-15 02:46:10 · answer #6 · answered by JULIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋