what should i do if i find my husban talking in pervite with a nother woman at a bar that we are at together?

Question

when i went to find my husban after he siad he was going to the restroom he was in a nother room were it was a closed off game room, he had a nother womans arms around his neck and was talking in pervite, she is a close firend of ours. When i asked about it he played dumb and he said the next day i asked him he did not remember.

Answer 1

He cheatin on you girl.

Answer 2

It sounds to like you caught him in the pre-act.
If you sex life has not been up to parr lately he may be looking for some excitement in his life.
Close friends make it with close friends more than you want to think about. Is she married as well?
You could hire someone to follow him, or have a tracking device placed in his car. It really is not expensive. You can even track his whereabouts and length of time at those whereabouts on your computer.
Before you do that, you must decide what you will do if he is in fact having an affair.
If he is cheating, it probably is not his first, and certainly will not be his last.
I hope you find it was a minor indiscretion in which he learned a lesson.
If you want to chat about it you e-mail me.

Good luck

Answer 3

wow! U must have been hurt and shocked! Im suprised you held your composure as you did.Im no expert but your good friend has her arms around his neck ,this is not a friendly gesture as a friend ,and his not remembering is a good excuse to avoid his fate.You have two ways to go you go into denial or you go with your gut feeling your not blind.I would think its a affair and get my self in order to support myself ect ,The truth is no use fighting about it with him or her.Cause they deny everything and you dont need to hear all that and as my mother always said never let your enemys know where they hurt you.Keep quiet play the game and hit when he less expects .Hurt him thru leaving .Oh and be nice till you leave he will be so shocked he will beg for you! He just needs to learn to respect you!

Answer 4

I would also approach her in person and ask her about it. Tell her you don't like this kind of behavior behind your back, if she has something to discuss with your husband she needs to discuss it with both of you. As for him, he is lying to you. He knows what they were talking about and the fact that they were in a room away from everyone else proves he was hiding (or thought he was). Keep an eye on him. He probably has others he talks too also. Drinking is what he will blame this on, but remember "a drunk man's words are a sober man's thoughts!"

Answer 5

You really should have confronted them at the time you found him with another woman's arms around him. Now he doesn't remember, how convenient. Now he'll be more careful that you don't catch him but it definitely sounds like he's cheating. Have you confronted the woman in question?

Answer 6

I think you already know where your husbands' head was at when you found him in the arms of another woman. Now the question comes to what are you going to do about his infidelity or his intended betrayal of you?

Answer 7

I think it has to do with the fact that you have the complete lack of ability to put together a string of words that, a) make sense; and b) are spelled correctly.

Really, chicky. Get smarter.

Answer 8

wow...that was really a LAME excuse!! as if you didnt see anything! i would ask him again to see if he remembers.. if you still dont get anything, maybe ask the friend what was discussed..if she doesn't cooperate, maybe tell both of them how you felt about the situation and pay close attention to future interaction between the 2 of them and go from there...if it happens again, you have to set up some sort of healthy boundaries with your husband and friend..

Answer 9

Let him know what happened and that it bothered you. Let her know as well that this is your husband and that this is unacceptable between friends. I would personally keep an eye on this type of behaviour from him. If he is doing this type of thing then lying about it, what else is he doing that you haven't caught him for? If he loves you enough then he will understand why this bothers you. Good luck.

Answer 10

Simply say to the gal, "have fun, cause he's going home with me" chuckle and walk away. Of course for this to work you must trust your man 150%, question is do you?

Answer 11

maybe he and her got something go on between the two and he can't be a man to tell u or he is scared that u will left him .