2006-06-15 02:05:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
It probably has something to do with various control issues. Contrary to what some people may believe, many men who like to be dominated are often very successful and dominant in their normal life. Being dominated by someone else gives them a break from having to be the one in charge all the time.
Also, suffice it to say that you find powerful women attractive. You like it when they take control over you. There's nothing wrong with that per se. However, as most women to prefer to be dominated themselves, you might have a hard time finding women who are sufficiently dominant for you. It might work out better for you to hire a professional dominatrix to get this out of your system privately and safely. And for those of you who don't know the difference, a dominatrix is not a hooker. They do not engage in intercourse or oral sex, and they pretty much keep their clothes on the whole time.
In any case, don't worry too much about it. Plenty of people have strange fetishes or odd sexual attractions. It's nothing to be ashamed of. Just try to keep it as private as possible, especially among family or coworkers. You might consider joining a dungeon if there's one in your area. Large cities usually have at least one, although they are difficult to locate. They don't advertise in the phone book. You could probably google "dungeon" and the name of the largest local city nearby to see if one comes up.
2006-06-15 02:17:05 · answer #1 · answered by magistra_linguae 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Although I don't want to pass judgment on those who enjoy fantasy role play, I think perhaps your case might be more of one where it has turned from fantasy, to day-to-day reality. Are you living your daily life wanting to be dominated by women constantly? If so, you should explore where this need is coming from.
I would suggest you explore this need in counseling. Ask yourself why you want to be dominated by a woman, and be made to feel inferior. Was there such a woman who treated you like this in the past, or when you were growing up?
2006-06-15 02:11:45 · answer #2 · answered by Toolooroo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with that.
You might have a fetish for dominatrixes and so on.
It could be psychological as well... Like, did you grow up around a lot of women? Did they yell at each other a lot? Etc.
2006-06-15 02:08:09 · answer #3 · answered by Your Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good 4 you. my guy loves it to. bdsm rocks. some men just love the power of a strong woman. girls love i 2 do it.
2006-06-15 02:46:17 · answer #4 · answered by candyprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every one has different fantasies, its perfectly normal as long as you don't take it to the extreme.
2006-06-15 02:28:36 · answer #5 · answered by fasb123r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? Because you're a bit kinky. And there's nothing wrong with that. Go for it.
2006-06-15 03:21:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is ok and is super hot, for me is super sexy to see overpowered and humiliated a handsome guy, enjoy it!!!!
2006-06-15 05:29:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are a woman
2006-06-15 02:08:26 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋