2006-06-15 02:02:32 · 15 answers · asked by rahularya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why should age play a factor? After you turn 21 there's really not a whole lot of differences between ages. Obviously if she where 30 there woiuld be but I would say all the way up through 28-29 you would still be on the same level. People always grow up conscious of the ages of people they date. When you're younger the difference would be huge. For example if you were 17 and she was 21, it probably wouldn't work out between the two of you. Once you hit 20-21 though the difference between ages really doesn't play a role at all.
2006-06-15 02:04:44 · answer #1 · answered by kmbaum2003 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The four year difference is nothing to conern yourself with. The fact that you are only 21 is a concern. No offense to any guys here but women mature faster. She may know what she wants in life but you may not. If you love each other, holding off for another three/four years shouldn't be a problem. You need to make sure you are a man who can support your wife, family and household and not just a male who wants what he wants.
2006-06-15 02:45:37 · answer #2 · answered by katluvrcarol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the first thing you have to do is answer this question: "What is the real reason why you want to marry the girl older than you are?" If you can answer this question then I guess you know what is the answer to your question. If you want to marry the girl older than you are because of her experience in life then better think twice but if you are marrying that girl because of love regardless of what will other people might say. Then go ahead and marry the girl you love.
2006-06-15 02:23:42 · answer #3 · answered by Trisha143 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people change a lot when they are in their twenties. a 21 year old differ so much from a 31 year old. Im not saying you have to wait 10 years more, but at least consider this opinion before taking any steps you might regret
2006-06-15 02:05:47 · answer #4 · answered by Amantia A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear think for yourself - What will be your age when she gets menopause. What will you do at that time - flirt with another ????? Think hard before taking any decision. At this age you will try to be positive all through. Better ask any guy of age 45+ and his sexual needs, and what if his partner cannot satisfy. Now up to you
2006-06-15 02:10:38 · answer #5 · answered by Raj S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what state you live in "Billy Bob" but around here that kind of cradle robbing is sick and I'm pretty sure illegal. Call the cops and sue her for raping you take the money and run to Tibet and all your dreams will come true.
2006-06-15 02:36:55 · answer #6 · answered by ahtn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would it not be right? If you love her and she loves you then it shouldn't matter about the age difference. Best of luck to both of you.
2006-06-15 02:10:45 · answer #7 · answered by °o.O ìVîLΧH_ÅÑGËL O.o° 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just follow ur heart b/c if u love her & she loves u then go 4 it . Its not like its illiegal 2 get married at ur age.
2006-06-15 02:13:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u doing true love that why it is very good but if u use her and throw so thats not right if u promice her to get marriage with her so u r apsalutly right.
2006-06-15 02:56:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u love her? if yes why are u asking that question ur heart must know its right or not:) age is not important if u mean it... so have a nice mariage
2006-06-15 02:12:41 · answer #10 · answered by Maka n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋