im realli young engaged and i want a baby is that okay
2006-06-15 01:55:40 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
learn to spell and use proper grammer so your dumbass kid doesnt have a dumbass mommy
2006-06-15 01:57:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you ready to lose your boyfriend? Are you ready to lose your freedom? A baby is a 24/7 job that you just can't get rid of because you are tired or don't feel like taking care of anymore. Ever had a puppy that you were totally responsible for? You sleep when and if the baby sleeps, you shower if the baby is happy and you eat as long as the baby is happy. You may want to find someone who has a newborn under 4 months old to take care of for a week to see what it is like. There is more to having a child then wanting it. Ar you educationally ready to raise child in the right way. Are you financially stable to provide for your child in the right way. Did you know that a newborn uses over 10 diapers a day. Go check out the price of Huggies or even generic diapers. Do the math. You planing on breast feeding? If so you are on call all the time. If not check out the price of formula. About 1.50 - 2.00 per can and a baby drinks about a can a day. And it only grows from there. There is alot to think about before you have a baby. I hope this enlightens you to make a wise decision and not a hasty one.
2006-06-15 10:18:57 · answer #2 · answered by curiosity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had my baby at 25 and I was married and I wish I would have waited longer. At 15 life can be not all that fun, but as you grow up you get more freedoms, like being able to drive, getting your own place, collage, traveling, going out on your 21st birthday.... That will be so much harder with a baby and some of it will be impossible. You don't know all the fun stuff your future holds. Don't screw it all up by having a kid. Don't get engaged either. You will end up poor the rest of your life. Waite and marry someone who has gone through college and can support you so you can raise your children in a nice environment and you can give them a better life than you had. Everyone I knew that had kids when they were 15 or 16 work at Walmart now are not with the guy they had the kid with and their kids are failing every subject. That is not a life you want to live. Once the kid is here you can't send it back.
2006-06-15 10:04:42 · answer #3 · answered by whatdoiknow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have daugther who is going to be 18 and is married and expectin a baby anyday...she & I would both tell you that romance at that level sounds desperate. You should be taking stock in yourself, growing , enjoying andf making your self into something smarter so when its truly the right guy and moment...you will have a home, stable job and a good life to offer a child. Why rush because of a urge. Its not good or smart to act on urges unless itss igning up for clooege. Be smart, have sometimg to offer a family not juststruggling. A common goal for a man and woman are to plan a good and right life before kids, not the other way around.
2006-06-15 10:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by superchickchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you want to get married under 21? It is a life-changing decision and your life will never be the same after that. Better think about this hard and thorough before you make that big leap.
Did you know that most couples who marry very young end up getting a divorce later on? Some are even miserable because they rushed into it.
Hey its up to you - you do whatever you want to do. Just remember its your life and noone elses.
2006-06-15 11:46:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should forget the engagement and the baby. Concentrate on school and getting a proper education so that you can write proper sentences, that are grammatically correct with words spelled properly.
2006-06-15 09:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait to get married if you're under 21 and you should wait to have a baby for at least a few years because you want to make sure your relationship lasts. I know that this sounds bad but its for the better.
You should tell your boyfriend that you want to get married after you're 21 and that you want children after you're at least 25.
2006-06-15 08:58:40 · answer #7 · answered by jshepard17 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the first thing you should do is talk to your boyfriend. This is going to be a life changing event for both of you. It is unfair if you don't tell him your feelings on this issue. Also wait till you guys are financially stable to support a baby and you can afford to give him/her the life you always wanted to give him/her. Also think of how much it is going to change your life, you and your boyfriend once married have to experience being newlyweds.
2006-06-15 09:41:38 · answer #8 · answered by blake.ashley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't have a kid you can't even spell so you you won't be able to support your kid. and i don't want my tax dollars paying for you to have a kid and feed you *sses . you have a lot of growing up to do
i just went over some of your other questions and figured out you are 15 way to young and i thought maybe it was just this questioned you messed up the spelling but it isn't you can't spell it seems you need to dump the boy and worry about learning
2006-06-15 09:01:34 · answer #9 · answered by LOLO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that is not okay. You need to grow up first before you even think about having a baby. If you're asking us for advice, you're not ready.
2006-06-15 09:38:53 · answer #10 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the way your sound through your writing....your extremly young and should not even think about having a child anytime soon. In fact I think you shouldn't be thinking about getting married anytime soon either.
2006-06-15 09:03:56 · answer #11 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋