I had a friend who was having marital problems for at least 3 years, so they separated.......I never asked any details of what was happening......they invited me in and I was there for them and giving Christian advice. The spouse had more than 4 affairs and I feel is only wanting to reconcile because of financial difficulties....well, I guess they have because I have not heard from my friend in over a month. I have gone through a lot of personal pain myself within the last month and they have not been there for me. I am relocating and I wanted to say good-bye. Should I just drop the friendship?
2006-06-15 01:50:19 · 5 answers · asked by crystal l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
We are both female.....No....I was not having an affair....let's make that perfectly clear
2006-06-15 02:57:32 · update #1
If they knew about your pain then i would have expected them to be there for you. But not all people handle situations the way we'd like them too. Maybe they can't relate to your pain and didn't know how to help you. Just send them a card with something about friendship on it with your new contact details, if they really are your friends then they will contact you.
2006-06-15 02:03:51 · answer #1 · answered by sin27 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I don't know, did they know about your personal pain? You can't expect them to know without telling them, without ASKING for their help and support. You may not have heard from your friend in over a month, but I'm sure there's a reason. Have you tried to contact your friend? You could just drop the friendship. That's really a decision you need to make. I think right now it could go either way. Either decision could be the better one. I think first you should talk to your friend before deciding to drop the friendship. Also, if he or she knew about your problems and didn't help, then that would be a reason to drop the friendship.
2006-06-15 01:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by goshimwaycool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this has nothing to do with friendship. sorry!
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hi crystal, answering your message, i think it is nice of you to offer friendship, but as you say yourself, you did not get any details from them about what was happening, on the other hand, they didn't call you for a long time and never asked about you. real friendship is about CARING and SHARING. If that does not happen then its just not friendship anymore- as i said previously
2006-06-15 01:54:09 · answer #3 · answered by Amantia A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me the friendship has already been dropped. However, to show you are a bigger person, leave a forwarding address and phone number and leave the ball in their court.
2006-06-15 01:53:58 · answer #4 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm
2006-06-15 01:52:00 · answer #5 · answered by john 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋