Why do people find big women unattractive?

Answer 1

well i like big fatwomen.it is just something in the inner self that makes you to get attracted to the opposite sex. Love the heart and not the physique.

Answer 2

It really depends on the woman. Many of the bigger women don't take care of themselves at all. I'm a bigger woman, but I don't sit around all day like some do. I eat right and get in my exercise. I'm just meant to be bigger. And that's the same for a lot of other bigger women. I've never had any problems with guys, so I'm a lucky one I guess. I also think that big women (and big men) may be unattractive because they can't do as much without becoming tired? They get so boring then.

Answer 3

Media. Women starve themselves to look like what they see in print and television advertizing. Most models start at age 13. Advertizers want that total "fresh" face. One that all the diets and makeup offered will NEVER make anyone look. Photoshop is an AMAZING computer programme. It allows manipulation to the point in a documentry they took a petite{height} model of 4'11 and when they finished, they had her 6' tall. How..??? They worked by elongating her total body image. Even she did not recognize herself. I used to think Nicole Richie was cute. Now she looks like the poster girl for anorexia nervousa. Why did she lose the weight to such a startling degree..??? Because someone in the "media" said she was the "fat" one in her friendship w/Paris Hilton. Not EVERYONE finds BBW unattractive. If that were the case, the the term "Big Beautiful Women" would have never been coined. They is someone for everyone. The real people who are unattractive are the ones who go through these questions espousing their venom. Showing the world their incompetance. Offering up their ignorance. God made us all beautiful in His own way. Look in the mirror and see the real person there looking back. Not something in a fashion magazine. How sexy is it to know that Kate Moss has been photgraphed using heroin..??? Yeah, thats SUCH a chic way to maintain one's "perfect body". After childbirth, the agencies clamoured for her. Why..??? She finally had something to hang the clothes on. Be realistic w/yourself and your goals. Do not make yourself sick attempting to gain that "media" image. We are all different. We all have the ability to be loved. Everyone can. So do not allow the negative remarks already made or that will be made effect you. You are a good person. Love is out there. Out there for all.

Answer 4

People find bigger women unattractive because of all the media focus on what a women should look like. They seem to focus on being small, perfect hair, perfect nose, perfect this and that. I feel it is a shame when there are 12 year old girls out there that are anorexic because of all the focus on what a woman should look like. Little girls are so scared to gain 2 pounds and even go to the extreme of making themselves sick after they eat so they don't gain an extra pound. I am a smaller set person but like the old saying goes 'Beauty is on the inside'. I have met so many people that were very 'media perfect' but had the most miserable personality. So before you judge someone because of what they look like, take a look at yourself. Are you 'media perfect'?

Answer 5

people find anything that isnt the same as them unattractive we are living in a superficial world where looks and surface views are all that counts the old phrase "never judge a book by its cover" seems to me a good piece of advice as i have read some very exciting books that had very uninteresting covers and big women are the same we are all very interesting if you take the time and trouble to get to know us and look at the person inside

Answer 6

Depends on how big. Grossly or morbidly obese people of both genders are considered unattractive by most people.

But I think you could find plenty of people who think some "big" women are attractive. Take Queen Latifa or Mia Tyler for instance.

Answer 7

They age quickly and become flabby
They have health issues. So much load on the heart
They are not so flexible when you want a romp in the hay
You can't pick them up so easily if there is a need to - either romantically or an emergency.
But some are attractive!

Answer 8

One of the reasons is that a lot of guys don't fall for the fat girls. They usually fall for the skinny people. I know how it feels. I am big and no guy has asked me out. I like to think that guys will ask me out if I just be myself. Like I always say ," Don't judge a book by its cover". Don't try to loose weight. You will never know when a guy will ask you out. I hope that you find your true love soon!

Answer 9

Because of the psychological indications of big people.

It has been shown in studies that bigger people are less likely to get jobs they go for because of the connotations of being big.

It indicates laziness, overeating, under-motivated people.

Also a large amount of fat distorts the way that people look.

Answer 10

Because they are shallow minded, egocentric numb-nuts! size has nothing to do with it, someone could be the 5'10 blond with the big boobs, tiny waist & legs up to their ear lobes, so what? does that mean then that they are a loving, kind, honest person? of course not, people should except others as they are, & if they cant do that then they know what they can do.