2006-06-15 00:18:42 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You can A. pay for an early DNA test. or...
B. you can wait until the baby is born and request a paternity test. Most states will give yo one for free if you are unsure of the father. But you only have until 6 months or so after the birth to get it free.
Sit down with the two boys, tell them you are unsure but are sure it is one of theirs and ask them to be there for you when the baby is born for the test.
2006-06-17 16:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by jennanna 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
How on earth did you get yourself in this position. The best is to to a DNA test to see who the father is. Don't guess, the truth has a way of coming out eventually - you'll only brake a couple of harts. Imagine how somebody must feel when he thinks he is a daddy and then suddenly not anymore. How would you feel if someone takes away your child. Do the right thing.
2006-06-15 00:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by Bergvlam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the hospital if when you go for a scan if they can help you pinpoint the date of when you conceived.
If they can't and you intend to carry this child to full term then DNA test is the only way to go.
Its not really about you anymore - you have to know who the father is for the child.
I wish you all the luck in the world with this situation and really hope it works out for the best - honesty in this situation is definately the best policy.
2006-06-15 08:25:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be up front and honest with both of the men. Tell them that you are pregnant, but your not sure who is the father. It will be hard, but it will make you feel better knowing that you put it out there. After the baby is born it is best to do a DNA test to find out for sure. They range in price, but you might want to make sure that you have a few hundred dollars. It's going to be stressful to have to deal with both men, but keep your head up. Good Luck!!!
2006-06-15 00:42:14 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and up front from the beginning. Even if it causes stress now, it will save you from Jerry Springer moments later. After the baby is born, have a DNA test and then you'll all know for sure. Be strong!
2006-06-15 00:21:30 · answer #5 · answered by Wren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might try phoning Parentline plus. It's free, non-judgemental, and the folks manning the phones are all parents, as opposed to social workers. The site www.parentline.co.uk has an email helpline. They'll talk you through it to help you make up your mind. I can vouch for the confidentiality as I have done voluntary work there. They also do all sorts of free courses and can point you on to other sources of help.
2006-06-15 01:09:01 · answer #6 · answered by tagette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay here is your to do list to resolve this problem:
1. Get an aids test.
2. Purchase an anti-hoochie device
3. Get DNA test
4. Give child to loving adult couple with morals.
2006-06-15 01:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by nicolette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you stupid girl, how the hell could you be so irresponsible. you have to tell both of the boys you are pregnant then have a DNA test to determine who the father is. you are messing up lives here, yours, the baby's and that of the father. have you not heard of contraception?? std's?? taking responsibility for your actions???
a child isn't a toy that you can discard once you are bored with it... and you truly do sound likke a child. have more respect for yourself and for your body.
2006-06-15 01:11:41 · answer #8 · answered by emma a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 04:36:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take no notice of these harsh people on here for a start!!be honest and tell them both the situation,let them both be interested in the pregnancy if they want,then ask for a dna test when the baby is born.it will be hard to be on nice terms with both the boys but if your really unsure who the father is it will be the best for you to stay friends,good luck hun.xx
2006-06-15 00:39:24 · answer #10 · answered by sanders_sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋