how can a woman increase her sex drive?

Question

I am a 27 year old woman with 2 kids and a full time job. with all the stresses of the day there is no time or desire left for my husband. he complains often about no sex or any other physical intamacy. what can I do to boost my desire to care about sex again?

Answer 1

set aside a time and day each week and make that YOUR DATE TIME with your husband... find a babysitter and spend time with your husband ALONE...i know many successfully married couples who have done this for years....good luck

Answer 2

If he wants intimacy he should help relieve your stresses. You cannot perform under so much stress. If he wants the sex he will do what he has to to get it. Getting sleep and being healthy are important. Having a baby sitter for an evening alone would help sometimes too because you would have time with him and that time would not be spent hounding your kids to be good or do their homework. Have you considered a lunch break rendezvous?

Answer 3

If you are feeling this way then you must not have a good time in bed with him. Maybe you need to tell him what you like him to do to you. Maybe a little more foreplay. Dont just jump right in and make love. Play around for awhile. Get warmed up some.

Answer 4

forget about yourself and your needs, and think of his. husbands need sex like wives need affection and talking... seriously, be unselfish, and just go for it. maybe have a nap for an hour, set ur alarm so u can wake up, go brush ur teeth, squirt ur best perfume on, put a sexy nightee on (he will probably think ur just going to the dunny) then get in there and make love to him! an hour wont make u fully energetic, but it will give you a boost. make him feel like he is worth the effort.

as far as actually increasing ur sex drive goes, u need to look after urself physically. drink at least two litres of water a day (trust me, u may think it wont work, but after a week just see the change!) eat healthier. u can still eat junk, but make sure ur getting what ur body needs. even take womens multi-vitamins. keeping ur body nourished and healthy will increase ur energy and sex drive. even do some kind of exerscise if u can.. dancing, bike riding, anything u can do for an hour 3x a week will really help.

also, get to thinking about sexy things youve never tried but have always wanted to, think about u and your husband during the day. it may seem like an effort to begin with, but it will help u get in the mood eventually.

keep yourself healthy, and remember, ur duty as a wife is to be unselfish and meet his needs. sometimes u will have to forget about urself.

Answer 5

I'm in the same shoes and I'm only 20 in a week. I would sit down with him and talk to him about options. Like try something new, something that you think is exciting.

I tried that, it didn't work for me, but good luck to you. It might work for you.

One thing I like is massage oils.

Answer 6

when get free give time to ur self
watch a hot movie with him
a candle light dinner
a choclate cake (choclate inc. sex behavoir)
a bed with rose petals
a new outlook and a sexy outfit before going to bed
let him touch u in his way
this may help u

Answer 7

First, start to take care of yourself. Get in shape and you will feel sexy again. Get healthy and you will feel sexy again. Masturbate. Sometimes this helps to boost sex drive. Buy a few pretty night gowns or lingerie.

Answer 8

I think it depends on what the problem is. If it's really stress, how about a nice getaway with the hubby?

If it's something else, or you're not sure what it is, I'd suggest seeing a doctor and/or counselor.

Good luck. :)

Answer 9

dryed figs or dates, work on my GF she eats dates & gets horny everytime, whats in the fig?

Answer 10

put your thoughs aside for a moment and FU ( K his brains out
maybe it will turn out well for you and make you crave it tommorow night