I am faced with a dilema....I don't know what to do???
I am studying abroad and I work part time. But lately I have been looking for another job. My search had seemed endless until Saturday evening when a man in his vehicle stopped me and asked me if I knew anyone that would be interested in cleaning. Anxiously I told him that I was interested.
He asked me how soon I could start and I told him right away. He offered to take me to his home to show me what I needed to do and then drop me off afterwards, where I lived. When we arrived at his home he offered me a seat and started acting strangely..like hugging me and telling me that his job was stressful. When this happened I told him that I needed to leave. He grabbed my arm but I pulled away and I ran for the door. Eventually I got out of there and made my way home.
I am worried that if I tell my boyfriend, he'll think that I'm naive and maybe even think of breaking up with me....
(My boyfriend lives in my home country.)
2006-06-14 23:58:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Honesty is the essence of any relationship. It can make and break a relationship. That being said, you should tell your bf. If he loves you, he will not break up with you just cuz of one small mistake.
The 2nd thing is....WHAT IN THE WORLD WERE YOU DOING FOLLOWING A TOTAL STRANGER INTO HIS CAR?
2006-06-15 00:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by Quasimodo's Belfry 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
DO 3 THINGS:
1. Do not be so naive next time.
2.Tell your boyfrnd-and give out a white lie that he tricked you or something,make something up.
3.Tell the Cops and since you know where he lives,no problem.
2006-06-15 07:12:56 · answer #2 · answered by BLACKPOPE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i agree with the person who said you should be telling the police, just think you might save the life of some other helpless girl
as for your boyfriend, if you love him and trust him, and have been together for awhile to know that he loves you enough, you should tell him. keeping things from someone you love is never a good thing
2006-06-15 07:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Dreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget your boyfriend you should be telling the police this guy has done wrong & maybe the next girl wont be so lucky
2006-06-15 07:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by cowboys4lee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is tough...you want and need his support but you might get negitive feedback...just tell him, get it off your mind.
and yeah, go tell the police
2006-06-15 07:05:09 · answer #5 · answered by m37734 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu must be shocked !!!
Tell him, hopefully he can spare you some sense.
2006-06-15 07:02:33 · answer #6 · answered by Firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, don't tell him but you were really stupid for doing what you did--your lucky you didn't get hurt or raped
2006-06-15 07:12:04 · answer #7 · answered by wilburcornish 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋