We were going out, we broke up, he asked me out again, but I said no but I still like him... how do I move on?

Question

This guy and I were in a relationship in September '05 for about 3 months until he dumped me. It was long distance and we've never met before. But after he dumped me, we got even closer and attached and he asked me out twice and i rejected him reminding him that 'it was you who said you couldnt work with long distance'. But now, I think he's playing hard-to-get or has moved on because he isn't the same guy he used to be when we were in 'love'. My friends have told me to move on and I already have tried, by not going on MSN (and he hasnt even smsed or emailed me to see if I'm alive...) and I know I should move on, but I just don't know how. Plus I know we're never gonna meet, well we might at uni but after one year cos I goto uni first. Please help...

Answer 1

Don't look to see if he is concerned about you. Chances are it is only because you have rejected him that he is doing this. For attention. I'm sure you have other things to worry about besides him. Trust me he left you, so why not let him pay the consequences for doing so. Hind sight is always 20 20 and when you leave someone that you know was a good thing, when things go bad you end up realizing how good you once had it and how badly you messed it up. Move on by thinking positively. Surround yourself with friends and doing hobbies. Your only young once. Enjoy it.

Answer 2

you know whats weird, the same thing happened to me 3 years ago... it was an online relationship and everything... i took him back.. we ended up breaking about about 4 times over the course of 3 years (without ever meeting) but we always got back together... i always felt a connection to him i never gave up on him... and now, today is actually the day i take a plane up there to be with him. i will be spending 2 months up there with him, its the moment i've been waiting for

all i can say is listen to your gut feeling, do you feel some sort of connection to him.. if you do, dont give up on him. Or maybe you should find out if he really cares about you first... he may only want you back because he cant find a gf in real life.

Answer 3

My advice to you is to leave him.

(I know this is not the question you asked now but once i read in one of your question asking about Pranayama and Yoga so im trying to provide information regarding your request.
Pranayama (Devanagari: प्राणायाम, prāNāyāma) is a breathing exercise originally expounded by Patanjali, an ancient Hindu philosopher and yogi, in his Yoga Sutras, a text on various yogic technicques.

While there is credible evidence (mostly as anecdotes from its regular practitioners) to believe that Pranayama helps acquire calmness of mind during its practice (like any other kinds of meditational techniques), any supernatural/semi-magical powers attributed to it are not scientifically proven.

Though the Hindu philosophers starting from Patanjali have developed a whole range of arcane philosophies around Pranayama and other yogic asanas, it has never been beyond criticism. Carvaka, the ancient Indian materialist philosopher, for instance, was a stringent critic of the yogic-practitioners.

The following text is the philosophy behind pranayama as expounded by its believers.
Control of breath means the cessation of the outgoing and ingoing movements of breath. Breath is the gross representative of the subtle, vital force inside the body. Just as by catching hold of the key of a timepiece you do not allow it to move and the subtler cog wheels and finally the subtlest hair-spring come to a standstill, even so, by the control of that force which sets into motion the mind, the mind stops its motion. It is Prana that makes the mind move. If the Prana is stopped the mind cannot move and a state of stillness (Manonasha) comes.
Therefore:
"stopping of the movement of Prana is Pranayama" ("Path to Blessedness" Sri Swami Chidananda)

Yoga is a family of ancient Hindu spiritual practices that originated in India, where it remains a vibrant living tradition and is seen as a means to enlightenment. Karma Yoga, Bhakti Yoga, Jnana Yoga, and Raja Yoga are considered the four main yogas, but there are many other types. In other parts of the world where yoga is popular, notably the West, Yoga has become associated with the asanas (postures) of Hatha Yoga, which are popular as fitness exercises and also form the basis of an expanding business. visit http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yoga for more information.

Answer 4

You are doing everything you need to. keep it up...this relationship is over, it was over when he dumped you. Accept this and move on. Obviously if he has not tried to contact you he has moved on. Let him live his life in peace, and you should go on with yours too.

Answer 5

hi!
you have to divert your attention to an activities like sports, dancing or singing. divert yourself where you can improve your personality and learn something new. moving on is not about thinking on how but its about on doing things for your improvement. you dont want to see yourself to be stack in a box where in you cannot explore the real you. Godbless!=)

Answer 6

You can only know the answer to this. Listen to your heart...

Answer 7

i can help u for that
just leave him......