I'm 18-year-old woman in a relationship with a 20-year-old man and I feel something's not right about me. I love "playing" with myself and fantasizing about threesome mff while masturbating! Even seeing two woman french- kissing or making out really turn me on and I’ll masturbate wildly in the end… once, I even masturbate 14 times in one day since I can’t make love with my boyfriend… don’t know why I’m easily feel so horny anytime… it scares me a bit but I can't stop playing and moaning...
I also love to have sex a lot… I’m afraid that I’m also a nympho since I always want to have sex with my boyfriend, 6-7 times everyday if we have the chance… In short, I still love my boyfriend, I REALLY love him and he REALLY loves me… we love each other… and I never want to betray him, but...
Is it normal for a young and healthy girl to act like that? Am I kinda freak or something?
2006-06-14 23:01:41 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You are young with great stamina :) be proud that you have so much energy. However, if you wanna have sex 20 times a day thats normal(as long as you dont forget to eat). Furthermore, there's nothing wrong with being attracted to other women. You don't have to betray him just because your attracted to other women. You should talk to him about and see if he'd mind a threesome with another woman. Most of my straight friends wouldn't pass up that chance for anything. so relax you're probably not gonna hurt your boyfriend, but make his day.
2006-06-15 01:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by sooziebeaker 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
lol, I could have written this exact same thing 5 years ago. I don't think that you're a freak, and I think you should stop worrying about what people think. Although it is a lot easier for me to sit back and say that.... now I'm openly bisexual and I've had a lot of sex with women and I no longer feel like there is anything wrong with that or with masterbation. I can't ascertain if it is "normal" but its the way that I work, so at least you're not the only one in the world who thinks and feels like that.
Maybe I'm just over identifying with you, but I would say that from what you've said that you're probably bisexual. I think you need to figure out the best way to explore that. You should have open lines of communication with your bf - if you can't talk to him about this then you need to evaluate if you want to stay with someone who doesn't really know you. Pitch the idea of a threesome and talk to him about what you're thinking. And if he isn't supportive, I would say dump him. Because it is not worth it to stay with someone who can't support you regaurdless of your sexual orientation.
2006-06-15 03:12:48 · answer #2 · answered by dani_kin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your desires are what they are, your desires. You are no more a freak than anyone else (just most people work hard to hide their freakiness.)
You may be attracted to women, or you may just be turned on by the fantasy. There is no need to label yourself one way or the other.
If you find yourself in a situation where you can explore your desires safely and sanely, then you may want to give it a try. You won't know what you want until you try.
As for your sex drive, masturbating 14 times a day must be time-consuming, you may want to consider more productive activities to engage in sometimes... if you do find yourself stuck in a really compulsive behavior (like cancelling other activities to masturbate, masturbating in inappropriate places) you may want to get help. But masturbating all day is probably no worse (better in fact) than sitting in front of the tv all day: bad if a habit, fine on occasion.
Don't worry about your bf. if he is like almost any guy in the world, he'll be turned on. and if you are giving that boy as sex as that, he won't leave you for the world.
2006-06-14 23:12:06 · answer #3 · answered by katunich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not worry. It is normal. It is usually speculated that males are the ones that have the 'Raging Hormones', but females can also have it. This may be an explanation for your bisexuality fear. Even if you are bisexual, you nedd'nt fear, as you are not judged on who you are. You can stay "In the closet", and still be bisexual. I feel that you should talk to your boyfriend, and tell him how you feel. If he really does love you he will understand your concern, and you will work through these problems. I wish you all the best.
2006-06-15 04:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by markjoodn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to WANT to do things like that, but I think if you do it too much you'll eventually get tired of it. Things just get old after a while, or that's what happened with me. I used to love doing things like that, and now I just don't feel the need, it's like I satisfied every urge I'll ever have in life in that short time and now I don't have an urge at all...It kinda sucks, so I'd take it easy.
2006-06-15 01:34:41 · answer #5 · answered by jenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At adolescence it's fairly normal to have hormones go wild and I've seen different forms of "extreme" behavior. I think it's very healthy that you enjoy yourself as often as you do and I'm fairly positive this is no indication of your sexual gender preferances.
You're most definately not a "freak".
Continue to explore your sexuality and feel good about the choices you make. As you grow, you'll discover that quality will outweigh quantity ... and you'll find the right balance for you.
2006-06-14 23:09:00 · answer #6 · answered by Warrior 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your fine--You just have an over active libido. You may be attracted to women and me or even just women--if you love your boyfriend stay with him until you don't love him anymore of course but ask him if he'd mind other women around--I know m;y boyfriend does'nt--he loves it when my friends join in. I used to masturbate ALL DAY LONG--I grew out of that phase--I've also had more than one straight girl tell me that she couldnt have an orgasm unless she thought about me going down on her while her bf was. Your may be a freak sweetheart-- but we all are!
2006-06-15 05:18:39 · answer #7 · answered by Tia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not a freak. I used to think I was straight but now I realize that I do feel bisexual at times and I masturbate a lot. I fantasize a lot too but it doesn't interfere with my life. So don't worry ... you're OK :)
2006-06-14 23:25:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly its really puzzling to a figure because they could immediately assume that you're a lesbian even although that isn't the case. merely sit down and clarify what bi-sexual is to her. make positive she understand. Than tell her "mom i'm bi-sexual".
2016-11-14 19:31:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most people have some form of attraction to the same sex, they just don't admit it. You may want to experiment, sometimes a fantasy is just what it is- a fantasy. You might not like it at all after you try it, and you might find that you like it more. When your young you are more sexually permiscuous. Tell your boyfriend how you feel, he might understand, he may have the same feelings.
2006-06-14 23:06:09 · answer #10 · answered by jonb4more 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋