if i think of or sex with a man does that mean i am gay? is this why i cant keep a relationship with a woman?
please share in your own words. god bless you
2006-06-14 22:31:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Sociology
Yes.
2006-06-14 22:36:39 · answer #1 · answered by Chris W 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I think it just means you are curious, and what better way to get a good BJ, then from the same sex, (someone who knows how to do a man right)! If you no longer want to be with a woman and find you're constantly thinking of sex with men, then you are probably turning gay!
2006-06-15 06:18:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt mean you are gay but what is wrong with the thought? Sex is a funny thing and fantasies are too. The way you think could get in the way of great things to come...
And that something to think about.
2006-06-15 05:37:18 · answer #3 · answered by bestanswers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could mean your gay but not necessarily. Why not see a professional councellor and explore your feelings and fears. And remember if you do turn out to be gay it's not the end of the world. God loves you.
2006-06-15 05:36:22 · answer #4 · answered by SweetyPie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, gay tendencies. If you beat yourself up about it, you are a gay basher. If you rate it as being an insatiable desire you are a flamer. It could be a fixation that you chose to think of because women are of no sexual comfort or stimulation to you.
2006-06-15 06:20:45 · answer #5 · answered by greenhug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily.
Sexuality is a spectrum, with one end of the spectrum being complete heterosexuality and the other side being complete homosexuality.
NO ONE -- no matter what they say -- is completely at one end or the other. Everyone is somewhere in between.
You may just be a bit father from the heterosexual end of the spectrum than you thought -- and STILL be closer to hetero than to homosexual.
And even if you are closer to the homosexual end of the spectrum, don't worry about it! Accept yourself as you are.
2006-06-15 05:40:30 · answer #6 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, if you want any kind of sex with a man, that means you are gay.
2006-06-15 05:34:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bicurious, maybe.
But not gay. For you to be gay you would have to established that you are only attracted to men only and possibly only seek emotional relationships with other gay men.
It's one of those things that you'll know the answer to when it happens.
2006-06-15 05:36:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are bisexual or you are just curious. To be gay you have to have the exclusive desire for only male 2 male contact. I suggest you act on your impulse and see what you think.
2006-06-15 05:39:00 · answer #9 · answered by foxtel_iq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to Think about it NO, to act upon it YES, though your are at least curious and If you feel you want to have sex with a another guy go right ahead there is nothing wrong with it!! Can I be your first ?LOL
2006-06-15 13:53:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your desires are your desires. simply that. it doesn't MAKE you anything, you have to make that decision about WHO YOU ARE.
that said, you probably are gay or bisexual, and if you are trying to repress your desire to have sex with a man, it won't likely go away.
No need to label yourself, but don't lie to yourself about your feeling either.
2006-06-15 05:38:41 · answer #11 · answered by katunich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋