The Married life is perfectly ok and I love my wife . Just want another relation for the fun of it.
2006-06-14 22:22:39 · 20 answers · asked by shady_man 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
wow . every one hates a cheater.
I cant talk to her for I know she will kill me :)
Did I say I am looking for multiple gf's heck all i want is one.
2006-06-14 22:36:33 · update #1
What you might start for "The fun of it" will not be the end of it.
You say you love your wife, but if you cannot talk to her about you desire to have another relationship, then there is something lacking in your relationship with your wife. Relationships are based upon trust and communication.
As for the possible problems with having a girlfriend, have you considered what would happen if she became hopelessly involved with you that this could ruin her life as well?
Talk with your partner. Get this out in the open. If your wife does not "blow up" or become "deeply hurt" or superglue your penis to your leg when you are sleeping, then you might have a chance at another relationship. Otherwise, live in your fantasy world.
2006-06-28 04:18:26 · answer #1 · answered by Richard 7 · 78⤊ 2⤋
Oooo dude, you are playing with fire.
What exactly are you looking for..... excitement? Sexual satisfaction your wife doesn't give you? You say your married life is OK, but if it was, you'd be happy with the one woman you married. Someone above asked how you'd feelif you found out she had another guy on the side - I notice you chose not to answer that in your edit.
Either stay married, count your blessings, seek professional help for yourself and keep the trust in your marriage.... or get a divorce and THEN go find yourself a couple of girlfriends.
I hope you choose the latter though because if you feel no guilt about wanting an affair, I feel really sorry for your wife if you stay.
2006-06-28 07:09:51 · answer #2 · answered by aaxof 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dont do it!!! Its not worth it because it has happened to me. One day my husband and I had a fight because of one of his friends which was a girl she came over to ask a favor and she had her boobs all hanging out to me that was disrespectful because he is a married man. So I told him that she did that on purpose so that we would fight and thats what happened! So we separated for several of months and I never knew where is was staying he would have to keep it a secret from me, later I found out from a friend that he was living with the other girl and later found out they had a baby together! That just destroyed me to the point I just wanted to kill myself, but I didnt because we have kids together! Then he would tell me that he did it for us because I cant have no more children and he wanted one more so they "say" they went to a clinic and had this done and they never had sex but no one knows the truth only they do!! So believe dont do this if you really and truely love your wife its not worth it take it from me I nearly killed myself over this!!! Once she finds out she will lose all trust in you and she wont believe in any thing you tell her and then she's always going to think that when you leave the house your going to call her or your going to see her or shes going to meet you some where down your street, then she'll start having dreams of the two of you having sex even though she dont know what the other person looks like! So if you really truley love your wife please dont put her through this its really HELL!!!
2006-06-14 22:38:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your not OK. Not unless your wife agrees to an open relationship--but then you will have to be prepared for her to be with other men.
When you get married you PROMISE to be faithful, that means you aren't supposed to screw anyone else.
You say you love your wife, and I'm not going to claim to know whether you do or don't, but you clearly do not respect her. I f you did love and repect her, then you would NEVER do ANYTHING on purpose to hurt her. If you cheat on her, you will hurt her and loose her. Plus anyone who would mess around with a married person is just scum.
2006-06-15 10:09:14 · answer #4 · answered by i_am_the_dida 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you allow your wife to have a boyfriend on the side, and she agrees to your arrangement, then why not?
But I am made to wonder if you married your wife, and made vows to her, and you seem to indicate that your married life is ok, then why desire someone else? and why did you marry then?
It seems a bit cold to me that you want someone else - you don't mention about discussing this arrangement with your wife - so would you sneak around on her?
Would you mind if your wife snuck around on you?
I would hope that you give this more thought and consider what you are doing to two other human beings - your wife and the person with whom you want to fool around for what if the one you fool around with falls for you and decides she wants more?
There could be complications.
2006-06-14 22:28:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur wife ask u the same question wht will b ur answer????
Dnt b so cheap Mr. Husband. When ur relationship is so good then y u want to hav a gfrnd. U shld b Guilty for having such bad feelings
2006-06-14 22:27:21 · answer #6 · answered by Muskaan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently the "Married life" is not OK if you want a girlfriend! Why would you want to hurt your wife like that?
2006-06-14 22:26:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's ok. 2 Years ago my BF married to one of his ***** who was pregnant. Now I love him though so much time has past. I guess this will last for a long time. Maybe U married a wrong girl?
When my BF told me, he was very sorry. Even now he is sorry for his action. But we don't have any relations now. I am sorry too.
So, u can make her your lover, that's ok, if she agree. I didn't.depend on person.
2006-06-14 22:32:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
funny. u're asking us to approve of u cheating on your wife?
if im gonna be labelled conservative for this, so be it...
but having a gf while you're married IS CHEATING in my book.
get a life. or a divorce. then u can hav a gf.
and trust me, life would be very fun then.
*note the sarcasm*
2006-06-14 22:26:28 · answer #9 · answered by lil'sammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't mind that if I was married to a guy but I guess it's much better if you tell her and make her understand it so she wouldn't leave you with a broken heart after she finds out if you love her then tell her and please don't just break her heart because of your own fun cause she trusted you right?so first talk to her and I think she would understand it...
2006-06-14 22:28:34 · answer #10 · answered by Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never do that.
Your life will be ruined.
U don't know what could happen.
There is no fun in having serious relationship with other girl, if u are married to someone else.
2006-06-14 23:44:47 · answer #11 · answered by princesslove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋