i know i stay at home alot but i truly didnt grasp the idea that there are alot of gay people in this world. im not gay dont hate gays but i cant imagine the men ya know but thats them i just am lost for words did the women have something to do with this did we make em' go gay??? was it their up-bringing the way they were raised i have asked females why and 98% have told me they were molested by men at an early age or the father was not there to raise them so please im lost as to why there are so many men fine azz men too why ?? why if you are gay please answer this why do you feel like you are gay ? did you choose this because you were fighting your feelings?? i personally dont think that you were born this way i believe its a choice im sure that all humans have those thoughts of another sex but i guess it doesnt haunt others as much as it does to the ones who are weak and cannot fight off the temptations of being with someone of the same sex. give your thoughts please!!
2006-06-14 21:18:46 · 5 answers · asked by lalisalaloca 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I personally am NOT gay, but I do have some gay friends, and while some people may claim to be gay because of some tragedy from their past, I feel that the majority of the gay folks out there were either born that way or just are happy that way, and while I do not exactly understand it, I am ok with it, it is a very personal decision and I feel that as long as you are not hurting anyone or forcing your beliefes unto them that everyone should be free to make their own personal decisions.
2006-06-14 21:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. FairyLove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are alot of Gay Men and Women out there.
No women did not do anything to "turn them Gay." Most of the gay guys I know always had an attraction to men. Some may have an attraction to women as well, but not as much.
Some men live in societies or have enough strength of character to be true to themselves and be attracted to or love who they feel drawn to. Others repress these feelings and often end up making things worse for themselves (though not always).
There is nothing wrong with being attracted to or finding solace or love with your own sex. Love is love and if it's true than it is pure, regardless of who it is with. I agree that most people are in someway bisexual, but lean more to the straight side or the gay side.
It's only temptation if you are not being true to yourself
2006-06-14 22:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by Margarette 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not gay but I think it might be because they like the simplicity of the gay lifestyle - the sameness of it, not having to learn about another gender.
They understand each other easier.
Jerry Seinfeld compared it to a baseball team that is only comfortable using their own gloves and bats on some episode.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AihJZnk0ruI9rjB75fQXZpHsy6IX?qid=20060620083208AANn1qg
But I suppose wanting simplicity would not apply as much to the ones that want to get married and adopt children.
Other primates only mate during mating season.
Gays do not have to worry about PMS or jealousy from getting another girl pregnant if they cheat.
2006-06-14 22:03:45 · answer #3 · answered by Eric Inri 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its society to blame.It's like it's trendy to be gay or something.I don't really get it.
2006-06-14 21:23:16 · answer #4 · answered by g'day 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh?
2006-06-14 21:22:19 · answer #5 · answered by Astro Gurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋