2006-06-14 20:47:04 · 13 answers · asked by jhong 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
The Dark Lord has a great point. There are so many sexually transmitted diseases that you can get even when using a condom. Waiting until marriage ensures that you won't get a venereal disease or get your partner pregnant. It also makes sex, when you do have it, a more special experience.
2006-06-14 20:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, finding the right gal is always the best. Be careful. Things can happen if you go down that road. Everyone already knows about STDs, but not everyone knows that you can easily catch them. It's also easy for most gals to get pregnant and have a baby. Even if you use protection, it's risky. A lot of people, who are not moms and dads yet, don't understand that having a baby is a lot worse than having a career. It's not a 9 to 5 type of a job; it's a 24/7. You will love the baby like anything, but you will not have a minute to yourself. You won't get any sleep in the night because baby will be crying. You will have trouble doing simple things like e-mailing or using the bathroom.
It's too bad high school education only taught us about protection and STDs. It didn't say anything about how easy it is to have babies and how difficult it is to raise them. Please think twice when you're about to go into an intimate experience. I know all this because I'm a mom of 2 little boys.
2006-06-14 22:13:43 · answer #2 · answered by qazxsw321 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The questions to you is why not? is it because you believe in waiting until marriage? Or is it against your religion? Or is the truth closer to 'you are not socially smooth' enough to persuade a girl to become sexual with you. Usually most of us have experienced intimacy by at least High School. My best advice is to become friends with someone who knows how the scoring game works (you need guidance) --- because either you're much too shy, or exhibiting some 'turn off' behavior that can be corrected. Maybe you're grossly overweight or something along those lines (it's a physical thing). Still 21 yrs old is not a real cause for concern YET but you don't want to wait too long because all types of problems associated with being with women may develop unless you move now. (at least you are asking for answers and that is good).
2006-06-14 21:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by sunshine25 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would that be bad? There's no age limit or requirement for having intimate experiences. Better to be "too old" than "too young" when you do it.
2006-06-15 12:11:10 · answer #4 · answered by Trish H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with that you wait till you fined that right person for you!! Congrats on that i wish i was still inexperienced good luck in your search.
2006-06-15 01:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by sweetspecialk2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 13(almost 14) and lost my virginity the other day
2006-06-14 20:55:13 · answer #6 · answered by suns fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its ok dude you are just waiting for the right girl in your life.
good luck.
2006-06-14 21:08:37 · answer #7 · answered by john 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, my boyfriend was 21 when he lost his virginity to me.
2006-06-14 20:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by Blah Blah Blah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, not bad at all. some people wait for marriage.
2006-06-14 20:57:21 · answer #9 · answered by gorgeouschic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not bad - its probably lack of good worthwhile opportunity.
2006-06-14 21:08:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋