i am 15. n my bf is almost 17 n we hav been 2getha for almost 2 years.
A little while ago my bf mentioned having sex with me but i didnt kno what to do...n i poste a question about it. A few days after it we were alone at my place. We were kissing and cuddleing n stuff and then he asked me if i wanted to do it. I kinda got a bit freaked out n didnt kno what to say then he said its ok if you dont want to. I told him i wasnt ready, He was totally kool about it and he calls me 2 times a day now. i luv him n our relationship is going rly good. but hav i done the right thing?
2006-06-14 20:36:51 · 8 answers · asked by CuteBrunette 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If its how you feel than it is the right thing. You'll know when you are ready or not. You dont need us to tell you when you should or shouldnt because you seem like you are doing great on your own.
2006-06-15 03:36:39 · answer #1 · answered by babygirl_k2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you did the right thing. He respects you now for having the strength to make a stand. There is no earthly reason that someone should have sex, just because the other person wants it. Take your time, when you are ready - and old enough - make sure you prepare by seeing a Dr. or Nurse at a family planning clinic and getting the correct birth control and make him use a condom...
2006-06-15 03:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! If you are not comfortable with having sex just yet, it is very mature of you to talk about it with your boyfriend and be open about it. It is very good of him not to pressure you into it either. He seems very supportive, and I spose my first time I was heaps heaps nervous! But after it, I wondered why I ever got nervous in the first place. You do it when you are ready ok?! Good for you!
Though I have a sneaking suspicion your boyfriend may push you a bit for it now more often, but still say no if you are not ready and don't let anyone bully you into having sex. :) If he is any sort of good boyfriend, he will wait a while till you are ready.
2006-06-15 03:42:02 · answer #3 · answered by Girl Goes Back To The Future 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When u r ready only u can say it's right and if u love him and he you u wont ever ask this question again.
2006-06-15 03:46:42 · answer #4 · answered by www.unique14ever21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you did the right thing, it sounds like your guy is awesome that he's not pressuring you too much. the right thing isn't doing it or not, its what you feel comfortable with
2006-06-15 03:43:54 · answer #5 · answered by slayergurl90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are ready, use a latex condom and go for it, its just sex for Christ's sake.
2006-06-15 03:40:03 · answer #6 · answered by Job 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u have done a gr8 thing talking to ur partner with truth right from the begining is the building of a true relation wid a strong base communication between u 2 have reallyhelped u too express ur feeling towards ur partner if u can not express ur feeling to ur partner wat a worth he is then. i think u have done fantastic think u shud keep discussing wat u ppl like or dislike n wat u feel to do n wat he feels to doo
xpressing each others feeling n respectinh it is the best thing in life
2006-06-15 03:57:57 · answer #7 · answered by simran 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its always good to wait. first get him checked for stds though those are always BAD
2006-06-15 03:41:21 · answer #8 · answered by _juicy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋