2006-06-14 20:05:00 · 11 answers · asked by lil_weezy20006 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
im 16 shes turning 16 the 21st of july and our parents are barely suporting our relationship we've been together for 6 months
2006-06-14 20:06:02 · update #1
im 16 shes turning 16 the 21st of july and our parents are barely suporting our relationship we've been together for 6 months
i have a job that pays 10.20 an hour they can give me 40 hours a week while im in school but im willing to do it for her and my kid and i really love this girl
2006-06-14 20:14:43 · update #2
just DO IT. no matter how you say it, it's going to suck. i'd suggest NOT doing it when they have company or when they are holding a knife or weapon of any kind. (sorry... not funny...) but really, "we are pregnant" is the best option. i'd also suggest waiting until you guys have an idea of what you know what you are going to do, ie, keep it or not, where it will live, etc.... that way you will have some answers to all their questions.
2006-06-14 20:10:49 · answer #1 · answered by carolynnnna 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would find a hide away for a couple of days , like a hotel room or
a relatives home you can spend a couple days at , then write them a letter telling them your situation your plans and intentions , also put in the letter you are very afraid so you are staying at a friends house to give them some time to calm down ..Please make sure you put the letter in a place where they can find it , you dont want them to think you ran away or have them scared you got kidnapped lol.....I was 17 when i met my husband and we where living together by age of 18 . We have been togather a total of 9 years , I believe that if 2 people really love each other they can make it work ...Did you see the pregnancy test ??? I would make her take one why i stood outside of the bathroom . I dont know your girlfriend by any means am i judgeing her but at 16 girls are very imature and will tell you they are preganant just to get a reaction ... good luck
2006-06-14 20:35:39 · answer #2 · answered by Diane26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look Im sorry but I think this is a bit too early for u both to take up such a big responsibility..you should have used a condom..but any way now that she is pregnant if u tell ur parents they will be shocked and I dont think they will support you in this..
I think u need to get more matured and get settled with a job to have a kid..so think hard and take action before its too late..good luck
2006-06-14 20:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by Deep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look i went throught the same with my boyfriend my parents didnt want us together or anything.. this is what we did.. if ur parents arent easy to talk to like mine... i wrote a letter to them saying whats done is done and im happy and im keeping the baby and i wont let them bring me down.. thats basically what it said. but it was easy for him to tell his parents since they were so close.. but also remember theres a chance of miscarriage i waited until i was 4 months to tell them but right when we found out we went to the health department/clinic they dont tell your parents nothing, u go and take the test (for government verification that shes pregnant) and then they set an appointment for the end of her 3rd month to start all the blood tests and such
2006-06-14 20:33:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can openly tell the people and try to convince them rather than hiding. It is better to break the ice soon.
2006-06-14 20:17:35 · answer #5 · answered by Bala k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them, nothing they can do but help now. Just make sure you both agree on the where and when.
2006-06-18 03:56:23 · answer #6 · answered by badmikey4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should tell them not u!!1 its the one thats preg. that tells the rents!!! but if u are goin to tell them then just go up to them and say mom dad i got _________ pregnant. thats all u have to do!!! and just tell them that u will help take care of the baby!!! then when u tell her parents just tell them the same thing u told her parents!!! (it probaly won't be as bad as u think)
2006-06-15 03:02:33 · answer #7 · answered by babynam2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them. They will probably be mad, but it will pass. I am sure they will support you at the end. I think you ll be great dad!
2006-06-14 21:16:46 · answer #8 · answered by HarMonia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're in deep sh*t dude, but you probably already knew that. just tell your parents bluntly. they would appreciate the honesty and commend you for being a man and admitting it.
2006-06-14 20:08:53 · answer #9 · answered by brainlessbandit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it it is not going to be easy either way just remeber to let them know you plan to stick by her.
2006-06-14 20:12:00 · answer #10 · answered by bridgit p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋