I know it's wrong but how do i get preg. without him knowing....We don't use condoms and I am not on the pill, he pulls out and has been for the past 3 years and still no baby....so how do I do it? I am ready 2 start our family now while we are young.
2006-06-14 19:22:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
That's so wrong to try and trick him. Why don't you get married first and then worry about this. You can't deceive your partner and expect to have a good relationship. Shame on you!
2006-06-15 03:53:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been in this relationship?And have you two sat down and talked YOUR feelings out?You and Him.
Trying to get pregnant without him knowing is lying and isn't true to the bond you both should have,if the both of you are going to God in agreement for the rest of your life then you both should be able to come to an agreement about having a child.I feel if he truly loves you he'll give you time to explain how you really feel about this,and you should also do the same for him.And with that you both should pray and see if it's really time for a new life,in your new marriage.I also think having a child married is what more women need to start do,cause there are to many women raising children without the father's and just maybe you might show another young lady,your daugther,some little girl that wants a baby so bad that its cool to wait.
2006-06-15 02:50:27 · answer #2 · answered by zakiyyahbeard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tricking him into a baby will only create hard feelings. So compromise and wait 1.5 years, and get married. Then try for a baby. That short time span won't throw you from 20's to 50's, so just slow down. Show him that you respect him enough to wait. Otherwise he might hate you for forcing a kid on him.
2006-06-15 02:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by Velken 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I'm suprised you haven't got pregnant already. My boyfriend actually has a child from another girl who did this to him. I think it was wrong- and needless to say, it ended their relationship. She got her beautiful baby girl, then fled (even though he wanted to care for the baby & support her- though she did lie to him). He pays child support & gets to see her sometimes, but the mom moved her away two states. She said "mike, i got on birth control now" so he thought it was all great. He loves his daughter but it's a two person decision- not just up to you.
I think that once you are married, you can "trick" him (if you are deceiving like that), but trust me- I'm a single mom & it would have been a lot better if we were married & stable first.
I think it's great that he is willing to actually HAVE a family- most guys don't ever want one. Maybe compromise & wait 1.5 years after you are married to have the baby. After all, HE will be supporting your lie.. by paying for diapers!
2006-06-15 02:31:30 · answer #4 · answered by natalie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having and caring for a child for the next 18-20 years is a tough job. If he can't trust you to understand & honor his feelings about this MAJOR decision in both of your lives, maybe he should be with someone else. His choice is to wait--Why? Til he's making more money? Til you're married and are buying a home? Til he's finished school/professional certification process? Children NEED time, money, shelter, medical supervision, 2 parents who are working together in UNITY and TRUST to love and care for them. Don't assume that if you deceive him about this that it will be alright. If you don't want to spend the rest of your life with him this may make him leave--but if you don't want to spend the rest of your life with him, why are you engaged to be married, "sleeping" together, contemplating having his child?
2006-06-15 09:24:54 · answer #5 · answered by ctfryland 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold him in when he's about to cm. Just make sure that when he's not ready to be a father you don't hold it against him because he has already expressed his feelings towards this kind of situation.
2006-06-15 02:27:34 · answer #6 · answered by DaNewGuy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait 1 and half year
2006-06-15 02:28:25 · answer #7 · answered by juan_hillo_69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not even married. Don't try to trap him, he'll just resent you for it. You're not going to be "old" in 3 years.
2006-06-15 10:02:08 · answer #8 · answered by desiderio 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋