there is this dude he works at the shop beside me...he is gay..and so am i...he likes me but i aint out with my gayness & that's how it is gunna be. I want to take him to the movies with me but don't know how to ask him...Please help...and what if he says yes...???
2006-06-14 18:44:45 · 8 answers · asked by Tim ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just ask him....if he says yes, go and enjoy the company you got.
No one is saying that you two are going to sleep with eachother right away.
If he says no, then at least you tried.
Why are you afraid to be who you are? My uncle waited until he was almost 30 to out himself. No one was surprized, because we all knew. Just because you have not formally said anything,it does not necessarily mean that people don't know about you.
You must have you own reasons why you don't want to out yourself. I hope in time for your sake that you let a few trusted loves ones in.
Good luck to you.
2006-06-14 18:53:24 · answer #1 · answered by stvsgrl2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you could just explain that you like him and would like to go out with him but that you arent ready to "come out" yet. He of all people should understand. If he says yes then hey go to the movies just dont hold hands.. or anythign else that would give it away. If he says anythign about how you dont want to "come out' and doesnt wnat to go out with you because of it then you wouldnt want him in the first place. Goodluck.
2006-06-14 18:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by babys_mommy_4_life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy a movie at the house and then explain to him your feelings on the whole "gay issue".
2006-06-14 21:42:42 · answer #3 · answered by um_er_ra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest with him that you aren't open about your sexuality yet and wish it to remain that way. If he can accept that and accepts your movie offer, well, then it looks like a movie for two.
2006-06-14 18:47:44 · answer #4 · answered by adagia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think I understand your confused state. First you need to make up your mind....If you want to be with him, or not. And dont ask him out, if you're afraid he'll say yes.
If you're not gonna be open with who you are, then forget about him. Because you're merely creating your own torture.
2006-06-14 18:51:30 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this a gay shop or what, if he says yes take him, if he says no, call him names
2006-06-14 18:52:58 · answer #6 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you write him a cute little note and ask him...also be sure to tell him that your not "out of the closet" yet.
2006-06-14 18:48:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEA GAY DUDE JUST TELL HIM BUT I THINK HE KNOWS GAY DUDES HAVE (GAYDAR}
2006-06-14 18:47:54 · answer #8 · answered by Hea Dude ! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋