I had 20 months with her, our relationship goes wrong, she gets anoyed and then she hurts my feelings, i love her, but i cant hold this more... need help, i finish with her yesterday...
well when i say she hurts my feelings, i'm talkin about she is always doin it, i tell her that but she doesnt care about... sometimes im da happiest man in world beside her, sometimes i cry all night cuz she doesnt care about me... she tell me that she love me, but she said also that is my desicion, i do this for she get repent about what she did... but she says i started this fight... i think always in her, i dont know if im in love, but shes more important than other girl i know yet... =(=(=(=(=(=(=( i dunno wut should i dooo
2006-06-14 18:43:15 · 8 answers · asked by lolaleos 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
its too hard to stop thinkin in her! i dunno if this is a physical attaction or it is kind of feeling...
2006-06-14 19:01:54 · update #1
change your clingy attitude and start a new life
2006-06-14 18:46:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide what your priorities ar. If the girl is important enough, you can make anything happen as long as she feels the same wy. If not, there really is no point as you will exert needless amounts of emotion and effort.
Unfortunatly, nobody can answer this question for you. You have to decide. However, if there is one piece of advice I will give from personal experiences, it is that you need to be with somebody you can communicate with and will communicate back and listen to you. Without that, there is nothing and your girl doesn't seem t be listening.
2006-06-14 18:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, you shouldn't let anyone put you on a roller coaster like this. Mind you, true love never runs smooth. But this?!
She doesn't sound like she's all that. Is she? Why do you put up with that. It sounds like a master-slave relationship.
3 choices?
-stay with her
-stand up to her and tell her how you feel when she treats you bad and that you won't out up with it anymore , and then don't put up with it anymore
-tell her goodbye for real and, guess what, you may feel quite relieved
2006-06-14 19:01:33 · answer #3 · answered by vzhnri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's always hurting your feelings, then like you say yourself, maybe she just doesn't care enough about you, you have to tell her that if she does care, she needs to start showing it, and maybe even you'll find out that she may not no how to show her love, everyone shows love in different ways, is there anything she does that makes you smile, but you have to decide if youre willing to settle for what she's giving if she won't change.
2006-06-14 18:51:38 · answer #4 · answered by mzdivine1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cry all night? If you are not a girl, then you dn't need to be with her, for you are not man enough for her. Men do cry, but rarely, and definately not for that. Men shed tears in death, wedding, graduation, proud moment for their kids. Yours does not fit any of these category, So I really hope you are a girl.
2006-06-14 18:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by DaNewGuy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like she is a little bit of a verbal abusive person.It may start out as little things but will eventually get bigger.No one deserves that , so I say let her go and go for the other one.You be down but you will get over it.You will know when you are in love.
2006-06-14 18:50:52 · answer #6 · answered by dimples 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek counselling she playing mind games
2006-06-14 18:46:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to me..that she is playin games...if she does not stop..even after u show and talk..wat u r feelin..that it does nt seem that she cares much..think about it..and take your own decision..all the luck..there are better in world..all the time..!
2006-06-14 18:56:06 · answer #8 · answered by sweetangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋