is he mad at me?

Question

yesterday i put up a question saying that my bf recently said he wanted to have sex....(I have been going out with my BF for a year now n he has recently mentioned having sex, What do i do,Plz Help?) <
So last nite went we were alone, he kissed me n we cuddles ect. then he started getting more into it n i freaked out. he was like..aww wats wrong. n i walked out of the room i felt really bad. then he came out n cuddled me n said he should go. i tryed calling him 2day but he didnt answer me........

i feel really really bad.

Is he mad or just embaressed??

Answer 1

The question is: were you attracted to him enough to mess around even a little bit. You were hardly near having sex; you were just cuddling a little bit, you said. Maybe he feels that you just see him as a friend if you pulled away even from cuddling. If you really are attracted to him, tell him that you would like to go further in steps, if you are ready that is, and not from nothing to everything all at once.

Answer 2

I Think your BF want to go on with your relationship to the next level , if you are not ready as I see , just tell him and things will go smoothly , your BF shouldn't enforce you to do sex with him under any circumstances it have to be a moment of love between two of you , just contact him and inform him that you prefer to wait some time if it's OK with him , and I am sure that you will going to have great sex in the end , waiting to hear good news from you ,
yours bacher .

Answer 3

initially, do you comprehend for a fact that he's suggested you in a bad way, and is your source completely good??? you comprehend that a pair of lips will say something and perhaps, basically perhaps somebody advised you something because of the fact they comprehend which you like this person and that they decide for to clutter that up for you. provide him the earnings, and confer with him on a private point to sparkling this cut back to rubble and pass on with what could desire to in all hazard be your dream guy. good success

Answer 4

You feel bad because he hasn't spoken to you since you didn't have sex with him? HE'LL GET OVER IT!! And if he doesn't, he isn't worth feeling bad about. Do not let any man talk or force you into giving him that portion of yourself unless YOU are ready..and even then, make sure you are D*MN ready!!

Answer 5

When you're ready you'll know. NEVER feel pressure or guilt for not bein ready to push your boundries.. It's hard to say if he's mad or embarassed - it depends on what kind of guy he is. If he's embarassed then he will wait for you to be, without a doubt, ready

Answer 6

who cares if he's angry (you shouldn't u did nothing wrong) embarrassed, i doubt it.....what i suggest that you do is love your self enough to wait for that special guy that will respect and shower you with it.i know it doesn't seem like a good answer, especially since you've been with him a year but trust and believe, this to will pass.in this life try hard never to be pressured into anything.take care and love yourself as GOD loves you.

Answer 7

I will give you a some advice there is a hot line where you can always talk to:

Answer 8

none he is just buying his time for u to feel bad and sorry pop open them legs
he kno his game

Answer 9

it is not him but you. do not worry if he really care about you he will call you. do not call him anymore. wait

Answer 10

jus have a talk w/ him sayin' ur not ready yet, and if he's a good guy, he should understand...its all good in his hood as long as u explain wut ur feelings r bout that.