I came home and caught them in bed together. She thought I was in Atlanta, but the trip was cancelled and I came back home. Now she is crying saying she is sorry and won't do it again. I knew there something wrong with it being too loose a few weeks ago..
2006-06-14 18:00:53 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Black, white, green, orange the point is SHE CHEATED!!! You will probably never trust her again. There are a lot of STD's out there Chlamydia, Ghonnera, Herpes, Genital Warts, Syphilis, AIDS!!!!! You should get checked out yourself, if you are safe, don't touch it again. This may not be the first time she cheated. Don't you deserve better that that? Say goodbye & go get checked !!!!!!!
2006-06-14 18:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 9⤊ 2⤋
Hey all, Cristanine may not be the real offender here!! He just wants to add additional information about the guy, that's it, that he is Black & nothing else.
I think if he would have caught his girlfriend with a Chinese guy, then again he would have mentioned it or for that matter any other guy. He just wants you to know more about his problem & seek the Best possible solution, that's it.
From a medical point of view:
Africa has maximum cases of AIDS & if this Black guy visits or his wife etc. visits/visited their actual home country in the past & if either partner of this Black Family has history of extra-marital sexual affairs (in this case they do have), then I think, first things first:
Cristanine should go to the Hospital & get himself checked for AIDS & all other major STDs.
Secondly,
What you want to do next with your girlfriend is you personal matter. You are the BEST Judge now for the future action. Analyse the situation with all the Pros & Cons & then it would be very easy for you to take the next step.
Again, Cristanine, there was nothing wrong with you mentioning the ethnicity background of the *** hole, who slept with your girlfriend. It ofcourse helps to analyse the situation better as different races show different Social Behaviours, Sexual Behaviours, Health/Disease Profiles etc.
Another example, Hepatitis is very very common in China, so, if it would have been a Chinese guy then you could be worried about Hepatitis..
& the list goes on..
Take Care..
May The Force Be With You..
2006-06-14 18:24:57 · answer #2 · answered by Neo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter that he was black!
the truth is, you better get tested for all std's, and vd's.
Hey, if you really believe she won't do it again, give her another chance, nobody is perfect.
But even the bible states that divorce is acceptable in the condition of adultery.
But there is always forgiveness.
Let her know how you feel.
Ask her why she did it.
Maybe you 2 had a problem and didn't communicate well.
2006-06-14 18:08:32 · answer #3 · answered by ministerjason74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the problem is just that she with another guy, regardless of their color. The common rule is to give someone one more chance. Don't let your guard down though; you're right to be suspicious for a long while. It will take some time to regain that trust.
Though, if I found my man in bed with another woman, I'd kick him to the curb for good.
Choice is yours.
2006-06-14 18:03:59 · answer #4 · answered by hyperpipermouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop her like a bad habit. Go get tested right away. She did it once she will do it again believe that. Chances are shes been doing other guys all along. Once again get tested.
2006-06-14 18:04:06 · answer #5 · answered by spitly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it th ecolor of the guy that is reaaly bothering you? seriously though, she cheated , your acting like she cheated with a purple alien from uranus. what was too loose?are you crazy? if you ent bringing it in the bedroom some body else got to.
2006-06-15 03:04:57 · answer #6 · answered by candyprincess 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cut your losses and loose the cheater. No matter what race the partner is, you will never be able to trust that person again.
GET OUT!!!
2006-06-14 18:04:04 · answer #7 · answered by BECKIFER 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just live your life life is very short. Sooner or later you'll find the right girl for you. Maybe you guys weren't meant for each other.
2006-06-14 18:05:03 · answer #8 · answered by hellokitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater, I hope they used protection, aids remember? dump her. and to everyone complaining because the word black was used do not get bent all out of shape, do we yet all pissed off when someone says white?
2006-06-14 18:04:33 · answer #9 · answered by sidekick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude kick the guys a-ss and dont forgive ur girlfriend. and if the guys toughfer than u buff up and be a man. u got to stick up for yourself man. show her that ur the only one. and let her come crying back. then forgive her,(again only forgive her untill u kick the dudes a-ss)
2006-06-14 18:04:45 · answer #10 · answered by consused dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋