why do men cheat?

Question

better yet why is it that when ever there is the slightest change in a relationship women think " he must be cheating", i mean us as women we have our moods and days some better then others that affect our relationships, but when I man tries to have his women "he must be cheating". What is with the double standard can someone explain it to a sister

you know whats funny i used this title on pupose to get a response, people are responding to the title question but not reading the detail, so you probably aren't reading this, what i want to know is why are women so quick to accuse.

i dont hate men, i dont accuse myself, i am just trying to get a better understanding on women and how they work, becasue thouhg I am one I don't quite understand them, when it comes to this topic.

Answer 1

its called insucurity. because most people always and i mean always believe in the negative first. most of the time we dont be cheating, but when u accuse us sometimes that gives us the ok to do so. just like when u think like we think like that as well.

Answer 2

Listen, the simple fact is women are correct and you and the men are cheating. If ir wasn't so, you wouldn't be asking this question. Now common, even if you didn't have sex, you thought about it. That my friend, changes a man's behavior. Remember, it's not nice to fool Mother Nature, because she's a woman. Women are from Venus and Men are from Mars. Go find a man.

Answer 3

women do as much as men-because for every man that cheats there is a woman cheating right there with him. Some arent getting the attention they need, they arent feeling good with their mate and seeking happiness elsewhere, and sometimes people are just plain selfish. If its because of slfishness find someone better for you.

Answer 4

maybe it dates back to prehistoric times where there was one man to many women in a group. Centuries later society promotes monogomy where it is considered ideal that a healthy relationship is one man one woman. Perhaps in our minds we still think that when a man goes walk about so to speak he has moved onto a new group. Women are unique creatures re their thinking processes and I am one ha ha yes it is natural for many women to think that men are cheaters based on self esteem issues. You know if you figure it out you could make millions!!!

Answer 5

Im a guy. And men cheat for a number of reasons; immaturity, panic over age, thinking that they HAVE to have sex with as many attractive women as possible and afraid to pass up the offer, insecurity, but most of all a combination of immaturity and lack of LOVE for his partner

Answer 6

Men cheat cause they are always looking for something they cant get, They got the wifes that they wanted yes, but there is something out there that they shouldnt touch and they need to so they cheat. Its like telling a kid not to touch in a candy store, where they know its something good and they cant touch it.

Answer 7

Not all men cheat and not all women think all men do. But you want a simple answer when there are a zillion books and other experts that only have a partial answer?

Answer 8

Men cheat for the same reasons as women do!

Answer 9

Why do men cheat.....those who do...and that is some of them, lack depth. Their priorities are on self. They might better stay single, play the field.
And the same is true for women. People should do it right or not do it at all.

Answer 10

WOMEN CHEAT TO AND MESS RELATIONSHIPS UP AS WELL AS MEN I NEVER UNDERSTOOD WHY A PERSON WOULD CHEAT IF THEY WANTED TO BE WITH SOMEONE ELSE THEY SHOULD END THE RELATIONSHIP THAT THERE IN BEFORE THEY GET WITH SOMEONE ELSE