Shes very straight. I cant let anyone know we had fun that night. She didnt do anything to me. I just fooled around with her cause she was lonely and *lol* its what best friends are for. Im open to basically anything. i do know that i have feelings for her, but theres nothing there. she just got out of a relationship with her long time (for her) bf. now shes coming to me for comfort but i dont know what to do. ill be the same as i always have been with her. i just cant shake the feelings. and weirdly i dont care that much. i would like to do it again. she was the farthest ive ever gotten with a girl. but i know it wont happen with her. im a first time poster btw. oh and i dont wanna hear any "youre not bi" or homophobic comments please. i just need some help.
2006-06-14 17:49:21 · 15 answers · asked by BiBaby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I say completely straight cause she is. she basically regrets that night but let me do it because she was horny and is the kind of girl who tries almost everything once.
2006-06-14 18:11:45 · update #1
i love her to death (as a friend) but i couldnt tell her this. She would freak and im not ruining our relationship over a crush that i have because shes my best friend (and let me fool around with her).
2006-06-14 18:13:24 · update #2
I know for a fact that she isn't Bi. Shes just horny. That's my problem. It's just not gonna happen. I can live with that. But seriously. I've known her forever, I know her secrets, being Bi is definately NOT one of them! I swear to you that. I know she regrets it. But I know she enjoyed it. She's just not comfortable, but she is into trying everything once. And she did. End of Story. I need coping skills. I don't know how to stop liking her. And now she wants to move to Ireland to get away from her family and her ex. It's getting out of hand.
2006-06-27 18:49:49 · update #3
I understand your problem, my best friend is completly straight and I am bi, when i say he is straight he is. But like you I have a crush on him and still do,we have and still do go place with each other but I try not to let my self get to close to him. Just be there for her when she needs you but don't cross the line again unless she cross first.
2006-06-14 18:23:57 · answer #1 · answered by roverboy4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I've played on the fence liek you're friend try anything once. I don't think she regrets it as much as you might think if she did she'd have just went and matubated herself if she were just as you say horny. Do I think you'll have a relationship with her no. I had a friend who came out of the closset and wouldn't accept the fact I didn't want that type of relationship and my past experiance was just that one time. So get it out there on the plate say I really like you and the ofefr is open for a relationship; but I do respect you and if you don't want to that's fine, and leave it which ever way it falls
2006-06-28 11:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by Cbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This your friend is obviously going though changes since she upperated from her boyfriend.( this is a tramatic time for her). As you said she tried things once .. and maybe that is just that, She need your support right now, do not make the situation worst or complicated. Give her a shoulder to cry on . If she like that kind of a lifestyle and you......, when she gets her head sorted out at that point you both can pursue a much more healthier relationship... Good luck
2006-06-28 13:51:44 · answer #3 · answered by Richgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not bi. but when my best friend who is like my brother had his heart broken by his ex, i was the first one there. now i have a huge crush on him. but of course i cant say anything. i know how you feel in a non gay/lesbian way. lol. just tell her how you feel. if she hates you for it, then she isnt a good friend. who knows, if she is just in denial about that night, you two could be more than just friends. i dont know what else to say or even how to answer. i hope this helps you.
2006-06-28 01:55:06 · answer #4 · answered by rascal_flatts_2010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay.I'm a fem. i cant say that I've been where u are bcuz i haven't but i definitely think u should try to talk things out with her. ease into the convo don't just blurt it out. that might be too much for her. its not like you guys were drunk she knew what was going on. i think she is bi and she just didn't want nebody to know. and what u guys did that night probably made her a little nervous. u know uneasy around u bcuz youv'e found out her secret. if at all any. but the only way for U to find out,is to talk things out with her. like maybe when u guys go out or something(alone) try it then. tell her you need to talk to her about something important. if she didn't enjoy that night then she should've told you right after wards that she was str8. she's avoiding that convo. i think she digs u. but try that out. talk to her.
and to prlncess: **** u! and anybody else who has a problem with this lifestyle! *)
2006-06-27 15:55:58 · answer #5 · answered by Twin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and talk to her. I believe if you keep these feelings inside of you and don't release them, that
is not good.
Just be cool and collect with her and lay your cards out on the table to her. Open up to her and maybe you guys can go out somewhere and have a cold beer and talk about where your relationship is going.
I hope I have helped out. Good Luck bi girl
2006-06-24 02:00:51 · answer #6 · answered by PsychoSam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first does she know that your bi and if you want these feelings to go just search for another person maybe even a boy it might get you al straight up or maybe even a girl whos a lesbian or just like u bi but either way just be yourself
2006-06-28 08:25:54 · answer #7 · answered by nick_name137 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her the truth in a calm way. act like it's no big deal and then go to lunch. if your relaxed she'll relax. girls experiment. i had 3 exfiances{men} before i met my girl. we have 9 years. anything is possible and just go with the flow. i am JUST FRIENDS with a married man and he knows im bi, but he is married so cheating is NO OPTION FOR HIM with me. feelings come and go, so relax. you'll be fine. if she isn't intrested, find another pretty chick.
2006-06-27 22:22:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go for a girl who is just like her. Bring her around if she gets jealous your on to something.
2006-06-28 05:22:07 · answer #9 · answered by Rae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry sweety, just coppy the text and past it to yahoo compose mail... and send it to her...
I think she will understand u... coz she is ur best friend...
2006-06-28 00:45:24 · answer #10 · answered by Suman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋