In my relationship with my gf, all I want is to make her happy. Even when I am thinking in a physical sense, I only think of how I can please her, make her feel happy and special, not of her pleasing me.
2006-06-14 17:44:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Of course, that means you love her. Oh, if only there were more guys like you out there.
2006-06-14 17:48:37 · answer #1 · answered by Lexy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thinking in a physical sense, thats excellent. The path to being a sexual dynamo goes straight through the land of whatever she wants. In a non-physical sense, it is deplorable. If you treat yourself as a doormat, eventually, she will too.
2006-06-15 01:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, your smothering her.
you come first... if you don't take care of you, down the road you won't be able to take care of anyone else
you need balance
make time for yourself
make time for her
make time for friends
make time for family
if you are not spending time with all that are important to you (listed above) your relationship will not last.
you cannot be dependent on a single person for happiness
you are the only person guaranteed to live with yourself the rest of your life
i really hope you think about what i said, i tried to keep it short
hope this helps,
SS
2006-06-21 01:31:09 · answer #3 · answered by Starscream 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if you really believe this girl is worth giving all for...go ahead. A lot of people do not believe in love but its out there. I f you are happy that's what counts.
Just never forget who you are...
2006-06-15 00:54:10 · answer #4 · answered by Frankie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a normal young man. Now, transfer this behavior to loving and pleasing God. You will please your girlfriend in ways you cannot imagine. A woman likes to see men give of themselves to others (not sexually). Love and kindness never go out of style, particularly to those who have never been loved who who do not know the kindness of strangers. God is love and he wants us to love one another, not in the carnal sense, but in the spiritual sense. Jesus loves you and your girlfriend. Love Jesus and demonstrate your love for him by loving others.
2006-06-19 15:31:43 · answer #5 · answered by Preacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If we all operated that way our relationships would be more successful. That seems to me to be the essence of loving another person, putting their wants and needs above your own.
I think that is a very mature attitude, can I fix you up w/my daughter?:)
2006-06-15 01:10:53 · answer #6 · answered by keri gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, i would love to have a man that is sensitive to my needs nd desires like that. yes!!!it is more than ok as long as you balance it out with a proper measure of testosterone. be a mans man once in a while!
2006-06-15 01:47:35 · answer #7 · answered by ***BUTTERFLY*** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your GF is very lucky. In case she is bored it means she is missing something in her life.
2006-06-15 06:36:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well High School, if you have never gotten off 1st base you shouldn't have to worry about this problem.
2006-06-21 00:52:59 · answer #9 · answered by owllady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are one of a kind. I hope ur gf realises how lucky she is.
2006-06-15 11:30:41 · answer #10 · answered by skinny mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋