2006-06-14 17:13:56 · 37 answers · asked by DaGr81 1 in Local Businesses ➔ Other - Local Businesses
yes to some, no to others...
Why do you need to ask?
2006-06-14 17:25:21 · answer #1 · answered by JamesH 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
did you love him before he was in jail. Is he truly "sorry"? are his crimes non-violent? has he in the past been good to and for you? Will he ever get out of jail? Is it likely that he will NEVER go back? If its your man, do you really love him, trust him, and think that its worth the wait. Most importantly do you trust him? If the answers are yes, then it may be worth it, but the reason I answered this mostly in questions is that no one can really answer this question even if they've been in the same situation. this will be different for everyone and I think these are just some starting questions. The most important two are: does he respect you and do you feel safe around him?
2006-06-14 17:19:33 · answer #2 · answered by dominic k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean? Are you not in jail and still holding on to a relationship? The no if he is wrongfully accused. If is not wrongfully accused and you think he will come out a better man then the answer is still no. But if you mean that your in jail also and want to have sex with him then yes it is wrong! Or if you met him while he was in jail and your not, then it depends.
2006-06-14 17:16:49 · answer #3 · answered by Simmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong, though the people who love you worry that you are not having your needs met - that you are getting the short end of the stick when you love someone in jail.
I think it's a special kind of person who can love someone in jail, or someone who is away for long periods of time, for job, military or other reasons.
2006-06-14 17:21:28 · answer #4 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with loving someone in jail. I have loved a man who is imprisoned for some years now. The difference between loving him ,and the real problems that arise for most women, is that I have had no contact with him for 8 years. I love him within my heart, pray for him, and think of him sometimes, but I moved on to do what is best for me in my life. Devoting yourself to someone with legal, societal, substance, and behavioral issues is ALWAYS problematic and an anchor on your future. Many women will tell you it is intoxicating to have a man under lock and key who thinks of you only (IF that is true-many, many men in that situation are stringing several women along), and it can be very seductive. They have time to write and call and muse over you obsessively, but, how many women experience joy with that man, once released? The prospects for a convict are so bleak in general, and they have additionally been secluded from a healthy, giving, two-way relationship situation for so long, most cannot stay with you in one place once out.
It is fine to love him, but I caution you not to be "with him".
2006-06-21 12:58:34 · answer #5 · answered by mahleezah 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the situation and what kind of persons it's going to be involved. Ending up in jail necessarily does not mean he/she is a born evil. no one is evil maybe situation forced him/her to commit a crime, though its wrong but everyone goes through their life. there are different point of views, though i will suggest if he loves you, and he confesses to you and explain his cause, and from your prospective you could justify it then go ahead love him back. always remember use brain more than emotion then you will not end up loosing.
2006-06-14 17:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by ali n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After watching any episode of Jerry Springer, you'll be able to confess to yourself that there is someone for everybody. If you sit and think about the possibilities, you'll understand that statement in full. Love knows no boundaries. But, be aware that if some criminals show the panel that they are changed, then they can be eligible for parole...maybe at your expense later.
2006-06-14 17:19:49 · answer #7 · answered by Yahoo answer dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tts not wrong...If u loved them before they went to jail, i dont think so. It may not be the smartest thing or the most reasonable. but its not wrong. umm, unless u fell in love with him after they werealready in jail, thats kinda crazy.
2006-06-14 17:16:15 · answer #8 · answered by Tracy C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!! U can't help who u fall in love wit and just becuz he's in jail doesn't make it any different. It jus happens 2 be one of those situation's u can't control.
2006-06-14 17:16:03 · answer #9 · answered by ANC_40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, yeah. Why do you want to live with a guy who has been to jail? Don't you feel that you deserve better?
2006-06-14 17:15:30 · answer #10 · answered by Awesome Bill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guy in jail is wrong.
2006-06-14 17:16:31 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋