Am I too cruel if i do that? I threw all his stuffs and gifts and tried to donate them to an orphanage, for i know there is a foundation near my neighbourhood which can take care of that. As I have given them the stuffs to the officers there, my sister (who is the volunteer of the foundation) just told me that my ex is the one who handles the stuffs selection and after he saw that stuffs, he looked so upset and message me that why i am so cruel to him.
I just wanted to forget him. It's him who cut off the relationship last time, which really made me need some times to heal.
2006-06-14 17:08:36 · 10 answers · asked by Sparkling pearl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I do the same thing. Nothing is wrong with getting rid of the possesions that remind you of an ex-lover. And if his feelings were hurt, TOO BAD!
2006-06-14 17:12:18 · answer #1 · answered by baby.c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my situation was a little different. My ex physically abused me almost to the point of hospitalization. Needless to say, he went to prison for two years. It was my apartment, so I wanted to rid of anything that reminded me of him. My mom and grandma came over, and we had a throw away fest! I just kept thinking about what he did to me and it made it a lot better. His friends contacted me some time later, and said he wanted them to get his stuff. I told them to go to the trash dump and find it there. The nerve!
2006-06-14 17:20:19 · answer #2 · answered by BlackWidow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was there, I kept the good stuff cause I liked it! Then I got rid of him......He allready cut you out, why should he feel bad? Because you got strong and ditched him, thats why! If you was all crawlin' after him, he wouldnt act so hurt! Then he would be like he didn't need you. Keep walkin! The farther away you get, the easier it is to breath!
2006-06-14 17:17:20 · answer #3 · answered by Applechaps 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing could be more hurtful than throwing a gift awy infron of your beloved 's eyes.
2006-06-14 17:12:34 · answer #4 · answered by fmt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reliable question. that's in part be that adult adult males are frightened of being accused of sexual harassment. also that's extra effortless for women to take them off ( in the adventure that they are donning skirts).
2016-11-14 19:21:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex didn't give me much, just some photos of herself and of us. They are somewhere at the garbage tip, shredded.
;)
2006-06-14 17:11:33 · answer #6 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that that is a part of your past and that you would like to move on....
2006-06-14 17:11:49 · answer #7 · answered by Brookey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to do whatever makes you feel better...they are your things
2006-06-14 17:12:40 · answer #8 · answered by cassiepiehoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least you didnt burn it!
2006-06-14 17:11:37 · answer #9 · answered by robsbc2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-06-14 17:11:09 · answer #10 · answered by Sexy Grrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋