approaching people is a risk any way you look at it.
This is probably not what you want to hear :( but this is true: You have to be willing to seem foolish, and the only way you can conquer the fear of being laughed at is to learn to laugh at yourself.
I have learned through many years of experience that the risk is absolutely worth it. I have gained close soul-friends by approaching them and telling them I wanted to get to know them better.
Sounds silly, but it's so simple. I know--it's direct, but you know what, it's honest.
When's the last time you told someone you liked her/him? When's the last time someone told YOU that? How would you feel if someone did say that to you?
Don't come on strong--that's creepy. If you like the way someone thinks, tell her so. If you like her style, tell her.
And SMILE! Seriously. Genuine smiles are inviting--and frankly, not enough people do it.
Good luck :)
2006-06-14 17:06:22
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answered by abbynormal92243 3
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Try laughter, it's international. For example; If you're sitting by someone in a class you'd like to be friends with simply wait for an option to throw out something sarcastic or funny. It breaks the ice and leads to conversation later on.
2006-06-15 00:04:08
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answered by Milo 3
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TAlk to them,see wether they can understand u or not,
u can make me your friend.
2006-06-15 00:02:36
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answered by Anonymous
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umm find something you have in common
ill be your online friend if ya want lol
2006-06-14 23:55:19
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answered by benji 2
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