does it mean anything if your girlfriend, after dating 7 months, starts dressing skimpier? like, her skirts and dresses keep getting a little bit shorter each one she buys, her swimsuits keep covering less, her shirts are going lower and lower in the top.... i mean, as long as she doesnt totaly change from who she is im cool with it and all, but does it mean something that im not catching onto? and if so, is it a good or a bad thing?
2006-06-14 16:53:29 · 20 answers · asked by mdrieber00013 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
what if she says her looks arent changing for anyone, but for herself?
2006-06-14 17:04:24 · update #1
and, this new thing she got i dont think is even a dress... just one of those long shirts that she feels like wearing as a dress....
2006-06-14 17:05:30 · update #2
Sounds like she's trying to catch someone's attention. Maybe yours? Have you been paying enough attention to her? Or maybe she's got her eye on someone else. I can't read her mind, of course, so it's anyone's guess. Good luck.
2006-06-14 16:57:11 · answer #1 · answered by kitten lover3 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well there could be a number of reasons for that, but the one that sticks out the most is not really good. If she was not dressing that way when you first started dating, then she could be trying to impress someone else. If she has been doing anything extra like working out and getting her body better toned, she could be impressed with her assets and want to show off her bod. Best thing to do is ask her what's up with the skimpier dress.
2006-06-14 17:01:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I imagine that you are a bit younger by the wording of your question, but I am going to have to say she is getting more comfortable with who she as a person. Also remember that women tend to get dressed up for three reasons.
1) They are looking good for you, they want you to take the time to notice that they are smart, funny, cute or whatever attracted you to ask out your girlfiend as well as the fact that they are looking good.
2) They want to make other women jealous. It's all about competition.
3) It could be an insecurity thing and she doesn't feel she is wanted or pretty enough. Or its that you aren't paying enough attention to her, so she is trying to get your attention.
The best thing to do is to care in the sense of how your woman looks as you don't want her dressing too skimpy, but in the end, it shouldn't matter because thats the girl you are with, and in the end she cares for you, she likes you and so on and when you guys go out and what not, that she counts on you to help get her home safely. Hope that helps my friend....
~Chris~
2006-06-14 17:19:36 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is trying 2 get the attention of someone else. Just be careful and if u trust her then talk 2 her and find out whats going on.
2006-06-14 16:58:48 · answer #4 · answered by sckr4luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you probably started dating in November when it was really chilly so she dressed a bit more covered, but now it's getting HOT and summer is upon us so maybe you just haven't been exposed to her summer self...
or maybe she's turning all hoochie on ya ?
Seriously though...You could be making her feel more confident about herself, my guy does that for me and she has been with you long enough that she can express that
2006-06-14 17:01:21 · answer #5 · answered by Dorcus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be good or bad. If she's changing her appearance in hopes of attracting or impressing someone else, naturally that's not good. However she could be dressing sexier for you. Why not simply ask her why the change in her attire? Often times the reasons for someone's behavior aren't as "bad" as we believe they will be.
2006-06-14 17:05:56 · answer #6 · answered by adagia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be doing it for you... be glad that she feels that comfortable with her body. I wouldn't tell her that she's not allowed to dress that way.. just maybe come out and say.. you doing it for me?? as long as you dont see her trying to attract anyone else's attention, I would just be glad that your girlfriend is trying to turn you on!!
2006-06-14 16:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by emeraldeyesmiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be she is comfortable with you, Dont be Mischievous.
If you feel that as bad, Talk to her...
Why not you select large size dresses
2006-06-14 16:59:32 · answer #8 · answered by Praveen P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without knowing your girlfriend or your ages, I would say that she is probably just becoming more comfortable with her sexuality. She is probably exploring and learning who she is and her feminine identity. Encourage her that you like her for herself, not just her body, and help her keep the boundary between sexy and slutty.
2006-06-14 17:08:50 · answer #9 · answered by keri gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the gurl is tired of the person shes with...or she may be juss tryin to change the way she looks to keep her relationship between her and her guy a little bit spiced up...it may be either one
2006-06-14 16:57:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋