IT'S SO HARD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-14 16:42:08 · 25 answers · asked by lisette_m_2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hey. I know this is probably over used but, be your self. Don't be clingy. Give your new person some space. You can't just go straight from acquaintances to best friends. You have to ease your way into it. Just start talking to some people little by little. Then ask them to go to the movies or over to your house for dinner or something. Put yourself in situations where you are bound to have fun. Once this person sees how much fun you are, they'll love to be around you and start a friendship with you.
2006-06-14 16:51:20 · answer #1 · answered by Hannah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends usually gravitate to you thru a common interest. When I was young I liked comics and soon found other that liked them as well. Now, true friendship builds as the thing that bought you together isn't as important as the person. And you start to do other things together.
so as to your question. Look at your hobbies and see if there is a place that you can meet people that are into it.
it also depends on your age. Kids have it easy. there are many places to meet other kids. Parks,Playgrounds, Boys and Girls Clubs of America. and the library.
For adults its more complicated. but good places to look are Church,PTA meetings (If you have kids)Work, Volunteer organizations. Just to name of few. Remember be yourself. Introduce yourself and strike up a conversation.
2006-06-28 08:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by the webpage master 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you're shy to make the first move it's easy to see why.
I always find it easier when I pretend they're no better than me & have no preconceive notions on who they are.
Then I take a deep breath, wait for the right moment... walk up to them, introduce myself with all the usual formalities/ greetings & try to come up with some topic of interest to say like commenting on their appearance (lie if you have to, lol) be complimentary, obviously & take it from there. Works like a charm.
Best of Luck!
2006-06-28 16:27:42 · answer #3 · answered by ViRg() 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to just say Hi and start talking you will find people with common intrest and then before you know it you have friends. Oh by the way be yourself. Luck!
2006-06-27 05:50:16 · answer #4 · answered by Judy T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First: Change your thinking. Start telling yourself that it is EASY to make friends.
Second: Start being nice to people - even strangers - without expecting anything in return
Thrid: make that a way of life and enjoy it!
2006-06-28 15:51:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introduce yourself, after you make casual conversation of some interest. If the person is really nice, you can exchange e-mails, or phone nunbers.
2006-06-28 15:11:30 · answer #6 · answered by ianthra2010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I am reading this question correctly, you are saying that there is this person you like, but how do you get to know that person? If that's the question, then my answer would be for you to 'SMILE' and say 'HI' to start with. good luck
2006-06-27 09:03:31 · answer #7 · answered by timer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it's quite hard to make friends. I can relate. I'll be your friend though. ;-) finellipaul@yahoo.ca
2006-06-26 12:15:30 · answer #8 · answered by Paul F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to her and be like " Hi my name is (your name) do you wanna hang some time?" But frist get to know her
2006-06-28 16:29:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself i really cant give you alot of advice because i just moved to a new state and town and trying to make friends myself
2006-06-28 15:18:09 · answer #10 · answered by Monique G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋