i m now married 4 more dan 2 yrs. bt my wife confessed 2 me b4 1month of our marriage and one yr afer our engangement dat she had n affair with someone else whom she loved vry much n it wil nt b easy 4 her 2 forget him.she also didnot worth me during dis 1 yr which i could realise after her confession.but now she loves me vry vry much n cares 4 me. but earlier episode comes 2 my mind which make me upset . i 2 luv her vry much .what should i do. can i trust her?
2006-06-14 16:16:00 · 2 answers · asked by husband 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
One positive thing here was that this was before she was actually married to you and she probably has not done this again. Why did she wait so long to tell you though if i may ask? I am sure she is very sorry for what she did to you and would like for you to forgive her and yes i feel you can trust her! It has been over two years ago so you will have to learn to forgive her and let the past be the past! i feel your marriage and relationship can survive this.... If you need counseling and help then get it too! I hopw this helps you and encourages you some today!
2006-06-14 16:26:48 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really would like to help but i do not understand what you are saying.
are you saying that she told you after you were married or before.if before ,you may have should have waited to get married if you are not sure if you can trust her.plus if she told you that she loved the guy i dont think you should have married as that was not fair too you.
2006-06-14 23:27:32 · answer #2 · answered by greeneyes634970 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋